My fiance and I currently live with in my grandma's house. We hate living there, but it was the only place to go at the time. We pay her 300 dollars every month. We pay for all out own stuff; food, drink laundry soap, bathroom stuff, eveything. The only think she does is sometimes pay for my lunch at work, which she offers. The problem is she complains about eveything we do and even comes into our room when we are not there. What makes it worse is that I work at the same Company as my grandma and she gives me rides to work, to lunch and home or school (depending on where I have to go). Well, my fiance has talked to his dad and stepmom and they agreed that my fiance and I could move in with them in two weeks. My fiance's step-mom will be driving me to work and home because she works down the street. How do I tell this to my grandma? (I've already told my mom the situation, and she thinks it's a good idea to go.)
2007-02-19 05:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some of you people are rude!!!!
I bet most of don't even know what it's like to live with someone like her. She is NEVER happy. These are some of the things she complains about... using the washer. If were are using it and she needs to ask well, we get yelled at for using it. We put a sheet up in the window because there was no curtain and she SCREAMED at me for using a sheet. She goes through the trash to make sure we are not throwing away anything she wants to keep. (Cans and Bottles) She complained we were using her fridge space. (We went and bought a mini fridge after that). Her electricity bill went up and she SCREAMED at us for that too. (Extra people will make the bill go up.) We pay her rent money why can't she leave us alone? For those who say we should get our own place? We've tried, my fiance has horibble credit and places don't want to rent to him. Beisides that, we only make 2400 a month, and a lot of places won't rent to us for that reason either.
2007-02-19 05:50:44 · update #1
If we move in with his dad and step mom we will be paying 400 a month plus utilies. I AM NOT UNGRATEFUL, I am tired of being yelled at for everything I do.
2007-02-19 05:52:13 · update #2
I'd just be nice about it and say that you guys will be moving in with his parents because they will now have a room ready, which was not ready for you at the time that you moved into her house.
If she asks for another reason and you don't really want to argue I'd come up with one beforehand that isn't a lie (more space, more convenient, closer to work/school, etc.) so that you don't have to say "Grandma, we just don't like living with you!" and you don't have to lie to her!
Good luck!
2007-02-19 05:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rizzo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are some ingrate. Your gramma provided you with a roof over your head when you needed it and allowed you to save money so you can finally grow up and find a place of your own. Not only has she loved you but she has taught you to be responsible. Now be responsible and tell her the truth. God knows, she deserves it I read farther, now your going to mooch off someone else? Grow up.
2007-02-19 05:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Do not hurt your Grandmother. You will regret it.
Find your own place this week. Your Grandmother would understand you would want to live on your own.
2007-02-19 05:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford to pay her $300 monthly, plus all of your other expenses, can you not afford to move out on your own?
2007-02-19 05:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why don't you get ur own place to live not any home was meant for 2 families
2007-02-19 05:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by ladyoh 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you take her complaints personally, it's time for you to go.
2007-02-19 05:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋