AJ (2/18/2007 6:44:18 PM): tay im sorry i hurt u, u know im sorry i never meant to hurt u or anything close to it i love you and care about you im just not in love with you like you want me to be and im orry that i cant but i dont want to loose you tay your too important to me, i dont want u mad at me even though you have every right. i just want u to know im alwase here for you, even if im horribal at it. i swear on my life im trying to change for the better, i cant flip a switch it takes some time to change how a person is i hope you'll still be around when i actualy do change for you, if you can just hold on untill i do i promis it will be okTaylor Renee (2/18/2007 6:47:36 PM): ok....well as much as it hurts me to do and say this...its gonna take me a long time to forgive u again. ur gonna have to prove to me this aint like no other tim wen u say sry and then 20 seconds later ur the same aj that hurts me with every other word.
AJ (2/18/2007 6:48:01 PM): then dont forgive me
2007-02-19 05:00:49 · 9 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...its your choice
AJ (2/18/2007 6:48:12 PM): im supirsed anyone i know still talks to me cuz im such an ***
AJ (2/18/2007 6:49:22 PM): im sorry i didnt mean to say that see wat i mean im trying im gonna try for u tay i want u to forgive me and im gonan workf ro it
AJ (2/18/2007 6:51:57 PM): all i want is one more chance to make things right
Taylor Renee (2/18/2007 6:56:44 PM): ...u get one more chance thats it, and im not trusting ut till u prove to me that i can trust u, and im not forgiving u fully till u give me a reason to
AJ (2/18/2007 6:58:28 PM): i respect that and im gonna work for ure trust and im sorry again tay im trying to change and im gonna and im never gonna hurt u again
did i do the right thing?
2007-02-19 05:01:44 · update #1
We arent dating. But Ive always loved him and liked him. Hes loved me and liked me but not as in love with me as I am with him. He wastes his time trying to make me hate him, and he finally made it work. But all I ever did was be there for him and all he ever did to me was treat me like crap. Did I do the right thing?
2007-02-19 05:03:21 · update #2
I forgive you - just don't do it agin
2007-02-19 05:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think you did. First off the man already told you that he didn't love you the way you wanted him too. He seems like he is affraid to be alone and wants you to wait around until he either A) Finds someone new that he does love or B) Grows up and is ready to love you the way he needs to love you.
You didn't say how he hurt you, but if he has done it more than once which I'm getting the impression he has, then he always will. Not many men are able to change that destructive side in them where they feel the need to abuse you whether it be physicallly or mentally. Either way, however old you are, you deserve better. It is hard to move on but keep telling yourself that you will find someone who will treat you like a princess. Don't give up until you do!!! If anything...think about when and if you have a daughter. Would you want her in the same type of relationship as you are in right now???If the answer is no, leave him and don't look back.
2007-02-19 13:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by roo_1683 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you even see how he smash all over you one second & the next second he sweet talks you into forgiving him again? You gotta realize what's what & who he is. Seriously honey, this is for your own good. A second chance is enough. But if you keep throwing opportunities at him, who wouldn't grab them? & chances are, he's gonna laugh & you're gonna cry in the end. trust me, there are better fish out there
2007-02-19 13:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing? I don't even know what you did to start with but again trust is the number one thing in a realtionship of any kind and you must also trust and respect yourself
2007-02-19 13:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this, but as often as he has done this to you, you need to cut him completely out of your life. How many times are you going to let him do it? How much is enough? By continually giving him more chances, you are allowing him to walk all over you.
2007-02-19 13:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah you deserve better!! He needs to stop having this take care of me phase and grow up to a Man, shoot!
2007-02-19 13:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing because if the person doesn't accept your apology then they obviously don't deserve it... and hey... at least you tried!
2007-02-19 13:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Big Pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience guys like him don't change and it will probably get worse if he thinks you'll take him back every time.
2007-02-19 13:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by hotmamainmi1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i dont know which one you are
2007-02-19 13:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋