I have been dating my bf for about 3 months now and I love him alot and I know he loves me too. But he is sooo scared that I am going to cheat on him cause of his past relationships, how can I prove to him that he's the one for me and ONLY ONE.
2007-02-19 04:53:47 · 9 answers · asked by crazy_chic20012002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMFG. I think we were seperated at birth! Try going 7 months and he still dosn't trust you): The only thing that comes close to working for me, is sitting him down, and talking to him. Telling him how much I love him, and that I would NEVER even THINK about cheating on him. He's been cheated on 2 times in his past relationships, and I seriously want to injure the ones who did it to my sweet baby. I love him with all my heart, and I have to respect how long it takes him to fully trust me. He'll eventually trust you(: Just make sure your working for it!
2007-02-19 05:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by Schmanders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to prove to him you can be trusted except by not cheating. His distrust could lead to problems. He must realize that not everyone is as dishonest as he thinks. He may need some professional help if he thinks this of all women.
2007-02-19 13:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, but prove to him that you won't. Tell him that he's the one you want, and tell him OFTEN. But be wary that a lot of men will become very jealous and controlling because of things that happened in their past like that. Oh I'm sorry you asked how to prove it.......Time, you have to be there and stay there to prove it. But reassure him that you are not them. I hope everything works out for you and him.
2007-02-19 13:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no easy way to do this. He should trust you 100% until you give him a resaon not to trust you. He obviously has low self esteem and thinks that no matter what everone is going to hurt him. You need to reassure him that you won't do the same, give him compliments and do nice things for him. That should help.
2007-02-19 13:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sabres Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my current gf. There is no short route to gain someones trust, only time and with your behaviors against him you can win his trust and complete love. Good luck!
2007-02-19 12:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by zdenka77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to prove anything...trust is a feeling that comes with time....give him time and just love him as u used to do.... u cant force anyone to trust u....
2007-02-19 12:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure your honest with him.. and dont' give him any reason to think your cheating..
ie don't go and hang out with the boys without him being there
2007-02-19 12:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and tell him that he needs to trust you
2007-02-19 12:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel....and don't cheat on him....lol
2007-02-19 13:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋