well someone i thought was my friend,this guy i really cared about has 'dumped' me as a friend and i feel awful cos i really loved him now he won't talk to me,he hasn't for months,won't answer my messages or anything.I wasn't a stalker,i just needed a friend,he was there and now he's not.So night after night i am binge drinking,popping pills on endless benders and i don't care about myself or what i am doing though i know it's stupid.
PLEASE help as i admit what i am doing to myself is wrong.
2007-02-19 04:51:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You already know what you are doing is going to eventually either kill you or throw your life down the drain. For what? For a guy? You dont care about yourself but you admit it. Throw all those pills away, spill out the booze, throw some water on your face and move on.
You have already admitted you have a problem. Do you think maybe some councelling will help you cope better cause clearly you cant do it on your own.
Dont NEED people to make you feel better, have self esteem enough to help yourself. You can do it but you need a little extra help till then. Pills and booze dont do that.
2007-02-19 04:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, I know where your coming from. I'm been going through pure "heck" too. Two years ago I let my husband have custody of our 7 year old so that he wouldn't have to change school districts. Since then my ex-husband has married a crank addict and all "heck" has broken loose. She has turned the marital home (which had been ours) into a filthy pig sty. My son is living in filth. They rarely prepare good foods. She mistreats my son. I had filed for custody back in August but I'm not even getting a hearing until next month. Mean while, I have to go to bed at night with the knowledge of what I have done. I can take a klonipin or xanax when I have one and that seems to help for a while. I don't know what to tell you except that your not alone.
2007-02-19 12:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to know that what you are doing is not doing you any good. Your issue seems to be a shortage of friends, rather than inability to admit to yourself that you should change your lifestyle. I suggest you join some sort of interest group, but make sure it is one you will be happy with. If the first one you try don't work out, try something different. If you choose something active it will help your fitness levels to increase, this is good for the mind and mood, there will also be those who share your interests in this group, giving you some useful social interaction. Good luck.
2007-02-19 13:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by funnelweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on a little, you don't have to forget him all together just try making stronger relationships with other friends and confide in them. and honestly for him to "dump" you like that, you'll probably be better off without him. Quit with the drinking and the pills first of all, thats the most dangerous way to grieve. thats doing more harm than good. i don't even know u and i feel as if i could help u somewhat. HE IS NOT WORTH LOSING YOUR LIFE OVER! you are stronger than that he is a weak person for giving up a friend like you.
2007-02-19 13:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by needs_help_wit_sci_homework 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it!!! Take a hint and move on. You're torturing yourself. No guy is worth all that. You're popping pills and drinking, hoping he'll come rescue you. But even if he does, he will think even less of you now.
2007-02-19 12:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to give you such a hard answer, but only you can make the decision to get help and stop the destructive behaviour. To do that to yourself, even if brittany does, is a bit like drinking poison and expecting your enemy to die from it.
cheers
2007-02-19 12:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by yudavilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can help you in this forum. You know it's wrong and I'm sure you know you have self worth. Let it go, expand your life and get more friends. sounds like this relationship consumed you. relationships should never consume you, they should be an extension of who you are. Suck it up...Move on
2007-02-19 12:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some sort of help sweetheart. please dont end up like the once lovely britney - and no guy is worth doing this to yourself. talk to your doctor - anybody who you think will understand.
2007-02-19 12:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by Spurs17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets hope your a much prettier bald than her.
2007-02-19 12:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by deaddiscodork 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HI DON baldyEONE
2007-02-19 12:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋