ok why is that couples argue so much?

Question

they love eachother but they seem to fight over stupid insignificant things...

feedback please

Answer 1

Because their relationship is failing.

Answer 2

Pigheadedness mainly, but it could be a symptom of a greater underlying problem, incompatibility. Now some arguing is healthy for a relationship, as long as it doesn't go too far. But what may seem insignificant to one may be important to the other. And on the other hand, some artgue lke that because there are unresolved issues between them, the way to tell if that is the case is if the argumant starts on one thing and leads to something that was done 3 years ago. But, as in the case with my ex-wife and I, she always had drama in her life and I avoid it, but she had to have it so she would create drama out of nothing. I hope this helps answer your question, but man that was a broad one.

Answer 3

Opposites Attract. People have strong attractions to others who are nothing like themselves. To me, that's the perfect person, one who is strong in your weak areas. The reason why arguments happen is because people, for the most part, feel strongly about their opinions and will defend them all the way. That's why married couples argue so often. They know that stupid little nothing arguments aren't going to cause a divorce so they defend their opinons and feelings with more passion.

If they are seriously fighting, like screaming at each other, I would say they just need a day (or maybe just a few hours) away. If you're talking about your parents, a way you can help is see if your mom wants to go shopping one day so she can get away. But don't try to fix it, it'll work out.

Answer 4

because they aren't willing to change their minds.. and be understanding of the other person..

i don't think realtionships like that will work..

i have been wtih my bf for 2 years now.. and we rarely argue. especially over stupid insignificant things i can't really think of any times we've really argued..

we have a good understanding of where the other person is comming from.. we don't judge each other.. and we both accept the other persons opinion

so i think if there is a lot of fighting.. then perhaps its time for the parties to move on

Answer 5

PRIORITIES
It's hard to argue when you are both striving and working toward the same thing. Find a common goal, leave room and time for individualism and self, and respect what the other is trying to accomplish. Then there is nothing left to argue about.

Answer 6

sometimes love does not conquer all. people may be in love but, they just are not compatible enough. they may be in the bedroom but, that's not love, that's lust. another thing is that they don't talk. without communicating with your mate you will not be on the same page about many things like goals, and finances. people do change also. so say your in a relationship for a while, and you just break up. it's because you both have changed and grown apart. it's not that you don't love each other but, sometimes love is just not enough. i've been in a relationship where we were both going in different directions in our lives, and we never really broke up, we just kinda drifted apart. we are still friends.

Answer 7

Because they care about their thoughts and being in opposite sides hurt their feelings which leads to an argument. If both parties love each other, all arguments end up with good feelings and possibly sex.

Imo, if love is the food of the relationship, argument is the salt.

Answer 8

those couples argue so much because they are with the one that they aren't really supposed to be with trying to make it work (whether in love or not)

Answer 9

Power struggle, everyone wants to have the last word and the upper hand.

Answer 10

Because they don't love each other or they need anger control help.