a friends of mine(she is 25yo)never been kissed or had a serious relationship ofcourse,now she really in love with a guy!she is going to tell him that,do u think it is good idea and it will help if a girl tells a boy that she has fallen in love or you think that it makes thing worse.
what should i recommend to her,
for the records,the boy has no idea about my friend feeling and has got girl friend!
2007-02-19 04:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by annet r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be supportive of your friend and her feelings and you should let her know that she is running a big risk by telling the guy how she feels. He has a girlfriend and he might not know how to react to her feelings. You should point out the pros and cons of telling him. Make sure you are there for her regardless of the guys answer to her, she is going to need a friend to lean on.
2007-02-19 04:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeek. she should NOT tell him. Im thinking rejection might be one of those reasons why she hasnt been in a relationship or ever been kissed before. Confessing her love to a guy that has a girlfriend? not a good idea. If she just HAD to tell him something, than maybe tell him, hey, I think your hot and go from there or something. Dont admit you love someone or FALLEN in love with someone when they are taken, and obviously not interested. not a good idea whatsoever.
2007-02-19 04:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she has never kissed a/the guy and is about to tell him that she loves him, I can pretty much guarantee he will run away from her as fast and as far as possible.
It is too much and too soon. Being a virgin at 25 is one thing, but never kissed? Is she a bubble girl?
2007-02-19 04:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can express her desire to him but will have to teach him a lesson of sincere relationship otherwise she will also be used like others. As the Guy do not seem to be a serious person in maintaining serious relationship.
2007-02-19 04:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is to tell her to go for it cause he might feel the same way and I am sure she doesn't want to spend her whole life asking herself "What if?".
2007-02-19 04:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_chic20012002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....
2007-02-19 04:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋