if he looks at other women?

Question

if he looks at other women does that mean my boyfriend isnt happy with me, he doesnt comment or touch but he looks and i notice.

Answer 1

i had the same problem!!!!!! i still find it hard now, every day, ill never get over the fact that its supposed 2 be *normal* i think if u love someone why feel the need 2 look at other people and make the one you love feel not good enough? its not right and they shudnt do it.

Answer 2

It totally doesnt mean he isnt happy with you. Men are men, they will look at anything in legs. As long as he notices that you are with him and he never, NEVER comments or touches, you have nothing to worry about hun. Hope this helps :-)

Answer 3

I'm not sure if it does mean this. However, it does mean he's an ignorant and inconsiderate so and so. Regardless of whether he's happy with you, you ought to move on and find someone classy enough to only have eyes for you. Or at least who isn't so obvious that he makes you question yourself like this.

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Answer 4

It's a natural thing, however there's looking and 'looking' and if the way he looks at them is way to slimy for you to bear simply don't comment on it and start doing the same. Honestly I've been there and the more I pointed out how much it hurt me the more he seemed to do it. It stoped bothering me when I decided to turn a blind eye to it and start doing the same as him, made me feel much better. Good luck.

Answer 5

My boyfriend use to do that a lot too when we first started dating. Now he doesn't do it as much. When relationships are still kind of new, I think a guys options kind of stay open but they are happy with what they have. It will die down in time.

Answer 6

Oh come on - THEY ALL LOOK! He's not looking around for a better model, he's just doing what comes naturally, they can't help it! He might notice a pretty face or a nice body, but all the things we're insecure about mean nothing to a guy. He's not comparing any of them to you, so please don't let it lower your confidence - the sexiest thing to a guy is a woman who's confident in herself and enjoys her body being appreciated.

Answer 7

No. if he looks at another woman, it does not mean he is not happy with you. Their may be so many factors, or even otherwise if he likes you, it is not a restriction on him that he should not look other females. Is it possible for you also that if you like him, you will stop looking at other males. you have got unnecessary doubt. Be at ease and relax.

Answer 8

Oh my goodness...what are you going to do pluck out his eyes?.... he is entitiled to look all men look but as long as he dosen't cross the line, and touch, or should i say go with another woman physically, then stop being so jealous and clingy....maybe if you continue this way he will leave stop making this all about you....it's about both of you, if you are worried talk to him about if you're so worried.

Answer 9

You can never second guess it.
A person will do whatever they want to do.... you are not chained to your boyfriend.

My boyf has admitted to cheating on me and i trusted him totally and he never looked at other women that i noticed.
Its his loss and i can do better.... thats what you need to do. Get some self esteem and just think to yourself if he wants to go off with some slapper, then let him. His loss of a great girl like you!

Answer 10

Its in everyones nature to do so,
as long as he is not doing anything physical,
like you said,he isnt,so techniqually his not doing anything wrong,
just cos his looking,doesnt mean he isnt happy with you,
ask him,ot talk to him,& see what he says.