ive totally fallen for my boyfriend we get on great, i just worry he may find someone better, he looks at other women, he says all men do, hes a lovely guy. i want to stay together. any opinions?
2007-02-19 04:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by littleprincessbond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the problem alot of women make when at the start of a relationship!! Everythin's goin great n you can't get enough of eachother n when things cool off n the phone calls aren't as frequent girls go straight into panic mode wondering what's wrong with them an all those old insecurities from the past relationships come out in force!! That's exactly when we hand over power to the guy!! Giving him the power to control how we feel. You say you worry he might find someone better?? He chose you accept that n if anythin does go wrong rem that i it was a problem he had n nothing wrong with you!! Don't turn yourself in2 a nervous wreck worrying chick's enjoy it!! Learn to recognize the triggers that bring out your insecurities n control them. Once you master this you'll have a confidence he can't resist n he'll b wondering if you might find someone better!! Good luck babes x x x
2007-02-19 04:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is let go of doubt. The truth is you cant stop him from leaving so why waste all your energy worrying about when you could be doing so many more fun things. And yes everyone looks at other people its human nature.
2007-02-19 12:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody fall in love so quickly.You is too young to be falling in love so quickly.Because there are more better men out there that respect their girlfriend by not looking at other women.Trust me because I've been threw it.
2007-02-19 12:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Donell C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's typically not love (love takes time to build and grow)...it's infatuation and lust...
Try to work through your insecurities and enjoy your relationship no matter how long it lasts...always wondering if your bf is going to leave you just keeps you unhappy. You'd be better off single if you constantly expect to be anyway.
2007-02-19 12:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry if he wanted to be with someone else he would be he obviously loves u most do look at other women but if he makes comments that is disrespectful but looking is ok no touching though he obviously wants to be with u if he didn't why would he be??
2007-02-19 12:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right,all guys like looking at beautiful ladies.If he wants to leave you can't stop him. Make him know how much you love him and watch how he responds to your love. If's his response is poor,then leave him because he's not yours. It is no use loving somebody 100% and getting 0% love in return.
2007-02-19 12:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of being alone. If you have to worry, than it probably won't work. The best men want a secure woman.
2007-02-19 12:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by The Rabbi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then dont let him get away, give him a reason to not look at othr women. Be the only girl he sees.
2007-02-19 13:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by grintsbabe4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you get on ok then why the worry that he might take flight, make sure he doesn't
2007-02-19 12:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you've follen in love with him and not just hormons or something
2007-02-19 12:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by life aint a fary tale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋