Im currently 18, and I've been trying to find a girl...Ive gotten a lot
of dates of myspace and other stupid stuff like that but I hate when people ask "so where did you two meet?"...I basically wanna know where is there to look? and how can you approach a girl without coming on too strong? Ive tried the mall especially since I work there, but most of the time I end up coming on too strong, but since its a stranger I dont know how to not come on strong since you wont be seeing each other again...And Im at an akward stage right now, being 18...most younger girls are just too young and immature, and im sure id encounter a lot of problems from parents since Im 18, but I cant really go to or enjoy bars yet, and most girls at the clubs are at least 20 something years old...
2007-02-19 04:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by rman1201 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in most cases the right person comes along when you're NOT looking. if you look too hard you'll get frustrated. just be happy with yourself first and enjoy being single and you'll come across as confident and not desperately looking for love. that's what attracts girls, is confidence.
2007-02-19 04:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to check out some local churches. I don't know if you're religious but my church has a next gen. class for singles after high school and before marriage. We do all sorts of events like group outings and everyone is supposed to bring a single friend. It's a fun environment and gives you time to get to know someone.
2007-02-19 04:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by whitengreen4x4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clubs,restaurants,classes, church,places wherever you have a interest in because the you will both have something in common..Just talk to them like you do your friends,relax and no corny pick up lines.Just be yourself the right girl will present herself.Good Luck!!!
2007-02-19 04:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to date....Myspace you an soemtimes meet a few good people there to date - I have....Ask friends if they know anyone or their gf maybe has friends or they have a sister...
2007-02-19 04:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a dd driver and yes you can go to some bars. If not that try a coffee shop.
2007-02-19 04:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok since you think you are coming on too strong be like hey my names______whats yours? and get to know the girl...once you know her a little better she may feel more cofortable around you
2007-02-19 04:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Audrey♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting involved in some kind of activity (church group, club sports, school, etc.) and get to know girls through that.
2007-02-19 04:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak english veri litle.Live in EU.Not to look back.Veri marks for you desire.
2007-02-19 04:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by greenstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Louisiana.....lotta hotties
2007-02-19 04:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by quadpatriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself...sounds like you're a great guy. keep doing what you're doing. she's out there, you'll find her.
2007-02-19 04:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by ~lucky~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋