Ive been seeing this guy for a month and a half.hes been really great to me,has taken me home to meet parents,made plans for future(I am his first Girlfriend in 2yrs)BUT,last thursday,i saw one of his "girl"friends all over him and freaked out.he was pretty mad saying I embarassed him.He didnt talk to me all night thurs, or all day and night friday.He finally returned my call on Sat morning.I had a talk with him and he said of course he still wants to be with me,he was just really mad on Fri and had to think.On Sat he had to build something to help his buddy out,and ended up ditching out on his friends bday limo(that i was in)and working on this project until 4am.he never called me all night.yesterday,he didnt answer my calls until about 3pm,he said he was going to do some s*** and to work on this thing again.I said I had to talk to him in person, he said he would call be back, but the never did.Why is he acting like this? is he still mad about what happened.Should i give him space?
2007-02-19 03:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen this is a young relationship. Meaning it's not quite 2 month's old. well would have helped me feel Ur point if u were more specific about how she was all over him, but u may have put a little stress on him(
""throwing Ur hair back and flipping " hope it wasn't close 2 being violent") well he has 2 think cause he asked u bout a commitment or did he say he feels Strong about y'all chemistry and thinks u have a future? either way u got 2 give it room 2grow and if he not that into u after this ,well...pain is apart of life. cradle rocks over the grave we r born 2 die and we fill pain from the day we born till the day we die. so if it don't work out just suck it up and keep it moving!(not trying 2 b hard on u but real)
2007-02-19 04:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly now, did you make an *** of yourself regarding this friend? What were they doing anyway? If you did, he may be rethinking his relationship with you. Nobody wants a jealous clingy type.
Stop calling him...let him contact you next.
2007-02-19 12:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space for about a week maybe..i think he is really upset that you yelled at him but you have a perfectly good reason to according to me! so maybe if things dont pick up within a week tell him its over. or just do it now before he dumps you.
2007-02-19 12:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be upset but there r better ways of handeling yourself ... NO FREAKING OUT!!! Sounds like he might be letting go so if he does then go out w/ someone eles but 1st you should talk about what happened .Remember NO FREAKING OUT!!!
2007-02-19 12:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give him space show him that if he keeps acting like this he will lose you
2007-02-19 12:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need to give him some space. busy yourself, and if he doesn't get over whatever issue he's having, at least you didn't waste time waiting by the phone for him.
2007-02-19 12:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he found out you were psycho only a month and a half in.
Most guys don't until it's too late.
2007-02-19 12:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not the 1 4 u. if he acts like he cant call u then thats bull****
2007-02-19 12:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i answered this already. Too lazy to write my opinion all over again.
2007-02-19 12:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some space. he'll call you when he's ready. it could be that he's turned off by possesive girls. you need to chill out.
2007-02-19 12:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋