Ok i have one guy i like who is a good christian (which i am a christian) that i really like and one guy who is not a christian that i like and am currently dating. what do i do?
2007-02-19 03:48:05 · 16 answers · asked by Sydney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby, trust me. You don't want anyone that isn't in church.
No matter how strong you are they will always try their best to get you out of church.
I was in a relationship like that for 7 years.
You need to be with the one that goes to church. Then you and him can grow in GOD together.
2007-02-19 03:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with your heart! If the Christian is to 'goody-goody', then forget about it ( which you should do anyway because your already going with someone else, so I can't see how you would call yourself a true Christian if your thinking these thoughts!). But, if your really not feelin' the love for the non-christian, then don't just dump him and run to the other guy, give it 2 weeks at least.
2007-02-19 11:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by The PUNK Goddesssss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither of them. If you have to ask then you arent in love with either of them. If you were you would be incapable of letting them go.... so, just keep dating both until you either fall in love with one of them or someone else. There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person as long as you arent sleeping with both. And if you are a religious person you probably are not. You wouldn't buy the first dress you saw, you have to try on a few before the perfect one comes along.
2007-02-19 11:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you can even answer this question, you have a lot of self-evaluation you need to do. you need to find out what your priorities are, and you need to understand what it is that you want so that when you find it you will know. be very careful not to let your feelings guide everything you do. i know too many girls who fall in love with the wrong guys, and they always get into a vicious cycle of attraction and heart ache. you need to be able to have feelings for what is going to make the most sense for you.
you didn't give a lot of details, so it is tough to say what guy is best for you. don't go for initial attraction. go for what is going to make sense in the long-run, and it will save you a lot of pain. if you are a christian, don't date non-christian guys if it goes against your priorities. it is that simple
2007-02-19 12:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by rayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a very good christian if you are thinking of cheating , so go out with who you like because your question dont count....
2007-02-19 11:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date both there is no law that says you can only date one.
2007-02-19 11:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stick with the non-christian guy.It might be a good experience for you to be with someone who isn't of your religion.
2007-02-19 11:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by kyoshiwarrior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set down and make a pro and con list and see who come out on top.
2007-02-19 11:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one u like the most
2007-02-19 11:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2007-02-19 11:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋