How do I tell if my girlfriend is ready for sex? I am starting to annoy her that I ask her to have sex with me every once per week in my opinion. She wanted to break up with me... I don't want to continue pushing the subject with her anymore. We have been together for almost 6 years now. We are both 24.
2007-02-19 03:47:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ARE YOU KIDDING ME????
2007-02-19 03:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER ASK FOR IT~!
that is the most unattractive thing to a woman.
If you're both 24, and have been together for 6 years.
There are Two things you need to consider..
1. is she all about abstinence? if she is, respect it. You have for 6 years, you cant stop now. and if you can't handle it, don't pressure her, especially if she's told you that since the begininning you need to decide what's more important, sex, or her.
2. if she's been involved in sexual intimacy with other men before you, ask her why she's not into you like that. Tell her that you dont want to waste your time with her anymore if she's not ever going to be into you like that.. explain to her that you DO have testosterone and you want sex. You're a man. Its giong to happen. And say that your or her life wont be fulfilled without that in your relationship. I'm not saying you need it now, but eventually, you need to do it to have the true closeness that you need to be together forever.
P.S. when you refer to doing it. Never say "doing it" for "f**king" always say making love or showing my love to you.. it's easier that way.
Sorry about the long answer, but I recently went through this with my boyfriend, and trust me, when she's ready she'll tell you, or show you.
Let me know what happens if you'd like!
2007-02-19 12:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about give her some respect and an engagement ring?
You are ready for sex? What about her? She's probably ready for a real man who is a gentleman and respect her enough to ask her to marry him or be engaged to him.
If you want sex, get a prostitute and leave this young lady alone. What does age has to do with it?
So you're 24 and you put in 6 months with her, so that entitled you to some some ???
What you deserve is self respect. ... give yourself some by showing her a ring.
2007-02-19 11:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow... why ruin your great relationship with Sex? I mean 6 years is a long time... You should ask her to marry you before sex! Did you just now start bugging her? If you have... you shouldn't have even started asking... she stayed with you soo long, she probably really likes you and wants to marry you. Don't bother her with it anymore, but add on the sweeping her off of her feet affect, win her heart back...
Unless of course you want to leave her for someother girl. But i wouldn't recommend that.
2007-02-19 11:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i do understand why your gf won't have sex with you. you have been together for six years and you guys are 24 yrs old. if you want sex why don't you do the right thing, marry her, six yrs and all you can think about is sex. she should break up with you, if there all you can come up with. ask her for her hands in marriage if you want sex. do you really think she is going to give in to you at any time no. she is going to make love to another guy before she will you. open your eyes.
2007-02-19 17:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to sit down with you and have a meaningful conversation. There could be a number of reasons she doesn't want to. (Wants to wait until marriage, scared, nervous....) Only she can tell you why. This is an important topic you will one day have to cross. Sit down and figure it out, you two are mature adults and are definitely ready for this conversation.
2007-02-19 11:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by spynmepynk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop bringing it up, just let her know she needs to tell you when she's ready. Then resolve yourself to being celibate until she's ready (which may not be for a while, if ever) or decide if this relationship means enough to you to continue to wait or not. If it doesn't then move on.
2007-02-19 11:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question is Why isn't she ready? If you were 14 that would be a different story, but you are both adults.
2007-02-19 11:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've been together for 6 years, perhaps she has moral objections to premarital sex. whatever the case, you should ask why and respect her answer. if you push too hard, you'll push her out of your life.
2007-02-19 11:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely her choice and if you continue you could easily push her right out of your life
2007-02-19 11:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by jammie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has moral and won't have sex until she is married so if you two have been going together for so long maybe you should think about popping the question
2007-02-19 11:52:29 · answer #11 · answered by brittany ambrozaitis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋