I cheated on him and he found out. We broke up on Christmas eve. but I cheated onhim in April and we did break up but, he kept sending flowers to my job and calling to make up and the whole time he knew that I had cheated on him. I cheated because he was ignoring my needs. But that was no excuse, Y do I feel so bad when I knew he was not good for me. And how do I move on. ANd come to find out that when I was away for a month he had cheated on me with 3 other girls.
2007-02-19 03:46:36 · 10 answers · asked by Ji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This question was so unnecessary, wasn't it? I think you know that.
2007-02-19 03:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, girl you do need some asst to move on... Don't worry cheating on a man is not your fault. It's his fault! He can't satisfy you and your needs, especially b/c he don't know how to be a real man that's why you see it in some other guys... It's a good thing that you two are not together anymore..you are over the hard part of the relationship now "broke up"...And now comes to easy part "get over him or moving on"....All you need to do is: Go buy the book call "IT Girl" I forgot whom it's from buy the library has it and the book store carries it also. The cover is red and green has a face of a girl laughing and smiling. You only feel bad b/c he is the one who call it quite on you...I bet if you were the one you wouldn't of feel so bad...and of course b/c he blame it on you that you've cheated...so what,it's his fault...well great now you are single and you can do all the fun stuff you love, to help keep you busy and your minds off him. Go to the gym, excise, shopping, talking to other guys, hanging out with new people girls or guys and whatever happen remember guys love someone whom they think they can't get togetother with. The hard you play your games the much more they want you..If you give in to them too soon they will leave you and not care about getting with you...
2007-02-19 12:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by It'sJust-Me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, this is a tangled web. The answer is - time.
You're not going to get over him quickly, and nothing will help you get over him more than time.
You can occupy yourself, so you think less about him WHILE you're getting over him. But time is still the only solution. But meanwhile, go find a quiet, lonely place, and just cry. Cry your heart out. Cry about everything that you miss, everything you are hruting about, cry about boyfriends from ages ago... just cry.
Once you've cried yourself out of tears, get up, and go out. Go to a club, meet some friends (both male AND female), talk to people. Treat yourself to some new clothes, eat at a nice restaurant, or do something you know he wouldn't have done with you.
Before long, you'll realize that so much time has passed, and you aren't hurting anymore.
2007-02-19 11:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by ltygress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to get over someone trust me. But if you cheated on someone then i really don't undertstand why it's so hard to let go, but maybe it's the fact that while you were gone he cheated on you. The jealous side is coming out, or maybe its the fact that before everything happened you guys were happy and all that stuff. But hun, it's time to move on and you can do it. Fine a better guy, and maybe don't cheat on them. It will give you a bad reputation and everyone will know and won't even want to talk to you.
keep you chin up & keep smiling!
2007-02-19 11:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be easy getting over him knowing that there was never a real relationship between the two of u. Respect is so important in a relationship and that was something that the two of u lacked! the main reason why u feel so bad is b/c u know that u are just as guilty as he is w/ causing the relationship to deteriorate. go out and have fun, and in about 2 weeks, he will be last person on ur mind!
2007-02-19 11:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by LaLa-Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with some friends and party like a rock star! Take home as many guys as possible live life you are probably to young for a relationship as is
2007-02-19 11:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jason S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its obvious that it is good that this relationship is over...both people cheating on the other!!! Take it as a lessoned learned and try to control your lust in your next relationship.
2007-02-19 11:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with this guy??? If you both cheated, then there was something wrong. Occupy you time with friends and family and try dating.. Keep your mind occupied
2007-02-19 11:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by *SeXyB* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your friends and start dating.....secondly, instead of cheating if your man is not meeting your needs, tell him what it is that he's not doing, we're not creatures that take hints very well.
2007-02-19 11:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman... believe in yourself... have some faith.
2007-02-19 11:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋