2007-02-19 03:41:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. A woman may have cheated on him in the past. Or, one of his friends or family members was cheated on. He's sounds paranoid.
2007-02-19 03:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, though there are people who might disagree with me on that. I believe it is rather his way of letting you know his self esteem is very low. He doesn't feel worthy of you so believes you will go out and cheat on him when you get the opportunity.
This, conversely, may prompt him to get validation by engaging in cheating. It doesn't mean he is definitely cheating, but the motivation for it is there.
You should definitely sit down with him and discuss it from this angle. Constantly accusing someone of cheating is a sure way of ending a relationship.
2007-02-19 11:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times that may be the Case. You have to look at it from his point of view also; do you give him any reason to doubt you, have you ever cheated in the past, has he ever cheated in the past? When you have doubts or trust issues in a relationship its best to clear them up and put them out on the table right away so that you can nip the problem in the bud so that yall can go on with your relationship. Putting thoughts, ideas, and concerns out on the table can also help with communication skills.
2007-02-19 11:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that is how it starts, unless there is a reason for him to be accusing you of cheating. Do you have a lot of guy friends that you have recently got since you and him have been dating. Friends of the opposite sex that you have acquired since you and your boyfriend have been dating giving him a reason to be jealous. He might be having an affair, he might be insecure and afraid of losing you. But you need to talk to him and figure this out as it is not healthy for the relationship. Good Luck!
2007-02-19 11:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, although he could be. But more likely, he is very jealous and insecure and needs to control and manipulate you. I was married to a man like this for 11 years. It gets worse with time. You need to break free of a over jealous man. A little jealousy is natural.. but the acusatory attitude is the beginning of a horror story.
2007-02-19 11:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by riptidesareblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. But then again he sounds like he is insecured about the relationship and he is trying to get distance from you. Next time he accuses you call him on it and throw the question back on him. See how he reacts. Angry and gets annoyed then somethings up.
2007-02-19 11:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. Are you doing anything that would make him think you're cheating? Any that would give him that idea or is he blowing things out of proportion? He needs to learn to trust you if you're being honest & faithful. If he can't let his insecurities go, you need to let him go.
2007-02-19 11:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, it either means that he is or he has been hurt by someone who cheated on him before you. which would make a person very insecure.
2007-02-19 11:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not always, he is just overprotective of you. If it worsens like not being able to talk to other guys or something like that get out of the relationship.
2007-02-19 11:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know in your heart that you aren't doing anything to make him feel this way, than maybe he is having thoughts himself. "You see in others what's inside yourself." Maybe you could do something to help him feel happier in his relationship? That is.... if you think he's worth the effort.
2007-02-19 11:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by mayomay7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋