I have met this guy and have been seeing him on and off for about 3 months. He always rings me when it is convenient for him, and usually when I call him he says he will call me back in an hour but rarely does i.e. he rings back the next day instead. He is a 'businessman' although his phone number is constantly changing, as though he has got alot of enemies. He drives really posh cars as well, again, which he often changes. Also, on Valentines day. he txted me in the morning to say he was coming over with my present, but when he got here he hadnt bought my anything and said he could only stay for an hour. I was gutted, but I tried to hide it. Also, when he was here, he was acting really strangely, i.e. he was irritable and seemed to have a frown on his face for most of the time and kept doodling on a peice of pape. When he left he didnt even give me a kiss or a hug! I felt traumatised when he left. Is he with his girlfriend when I call which is why he cant talk? whats the secret? HELP!
2007-02-19 03:40:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could be he is mafia for all you know... this man sounds trouble...stay away...
2007-02-19 03:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sounds well dodgy. Changing numbers and cars in 3 months several times sounds all kind of weird! Possibly (although with out knowing facts) a little illegal!!!
Ceratinly the lack of emotion on Valentines day again seems odd. I suggest you chat with this guy outright and ask what is going off, he may have some one in the back ground? he may not but until you talk you wont know. But proceed with caution so as worse case sinario you dont get hurt to badly.
I hope things go well for you.
2007-02-19 11:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has problems, he is either a player, or he doesn't like you to put it blatantly. If i were you, I'd leave him while you can, what you have explained is nothing but grief for you, and he doesn't really seem bothered about your feelings. Don't let him mess you around, you are right, there is a secret, but its hard to tell what it is, but secrets like these are never good! Sorry! Hope things work out for you x
2007-02-19 11:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Soph 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling! Listen to your brain and not your heart, confront him with what is making you unhappy, suspicious, ill at ease etc.. Think about what advice you would give to your friend if she was going through the same thing. Dont be afraid of what the answers might probably be!!
2007-02-19 12:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by FARLEY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey he's either married or with someone...changing his number all the time...saying he had a vals present for you when he never, he hardly ever calls you and you hardly see him...he's using you my dear...i know you don't want to hear it but that's what he's doing...he's acting all cloak an dagger with you....he may just be a phony....be careful...or better still find someone who's genuine...i can see just by reading this that he's not genuine, he's hiding something, he sounds like a fraud to me and he's using you....dump him, find someone who's worth your time...his names not JAY by any chance is it? coz i know someone just like him...sounds like the same guy
2007-02-19 11:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he has a girlfriend??? There's the answer to your own question. Look obviously he doesn't have time - so the best hting for you to do is make tim ewith someone else, It sounds as though you really just like what he has to offer............
2007-02-19 11:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch this guy, he is probably married with more than 1 bit on the side. He is probably struggling with all the lies he has to tell. He will keep treating you this way if you let him, find someone who deserves you.
2007-02-19 11:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a bull s***er whos taking you for a ride hun,dump him and find someone who is exclusively yours and doesnt mess you about,you deserve at least that.
2007-02-19 11:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a weird guy. You dont seem to trust him much, why talk to him? let him go, find someone better
2007-02-19 11:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by independent101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont get yourself wrapped up with him! he sounds like hes to busy or just not in tune with the ladies right now. find someone else. good luck!
2007-02-19 11:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a drug dealer and drug user, save yourself and call it quits dont let him continue to hurt you, he wont change and the more you give him the more of your self respect he will take
2007-02-19 12:02:26 · answer #11 · answered by helen i 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋