My gf's friend is at it again....can I stay away?

Question

My gf's friend came over this weekend and as we were sitting at the table eating she started to rub me with her feet. She was barefoot and started by just sliding them up and down my shins. When my gf walked away from the table she told me if I say anything to my gf about it she will tell my gf I always hit on her and cause all kinds of trouble for me.
When my gf came back to sit down at the table her friend started to rub on my ____ through my pants. I could help but get excited because I have a foot fetish and she knows it, and I also think her feet are very sexy too. I'm torn because I enjoy it but at the same time I hate it because I love my gf. If I tell my gf we are likely to split because her friend will tell her I hit on her all the time. If I don't tell her I am afraid I'll give in to the temptation and possibly will cheat on her if I get the chance to be alone with this girl. Her friend made it known that she would have sex with me if given the chance. What would you do?

Answer 1

Sounds like your gf has a real psycho friend. I'd be honest with your gf. If you really do love her you're better off being up front and honest with her. If she believes her friend over you than her love and loyalty towards you isn't where it should be.
Your gf's friend is jealous and wants what your gf has. If you break up with her for the friend then the friend probably won't want you any more.
Your gf might have tendancies to believe her friend because she does not want to loose her friendship.
You're in a real pickle. Whatever happens remember that you were not at fault and tried to do the right thing. Life goes on and you are the only one who has to live with your concience.
Good luck.

Answer 2

I would've told her the very first time she made any move to stop it NOW and no ifs, and or buts about it. I won't be threatened with blackmail and I think people know it 'cause in my 38 years no one has ever tried.

I think you should make up your mind and then take a stand; if you want to stay with your girlfriend and you're firm enough about it chances are this friend won't even try to make trouble and if she does, then if you're firm & convinced enough your girlfriend more than likely won't believe her. If you're still so torn, however, it'll show... both so this flirt will keep trying and so your girlfriend will (rightfully) worry about your loyalty. If you decide you like this second girl better then be honest about it, break up with your gf and go on with the friend.