for an ex you broke up with over a year and a half ago; that you had a difficult relationship; that does not treat you like a friend but then either as an aquantance but spends many hours with you
If they undo their belts and botton when eating too much being at your home; and then fix it in front of you and you see their skin; but when you tell then to go do it in the bathroom or to turn around they feel you get offended by it and hurt and make fun of you for telling them not to do it here
There is no ill intention on his side for what he says and I honestly do not know what to think but I will believe it
Please be nice in the answer how do you act to something like this who is right or wrong
If never before they did that why do it now how hard is it to say ok it bothers you I will not do it at your house
How can you not feel bad when someone meant a lot talks to you that way
If they cared a bit they could not laugh; what if I still care for him but he not
2007-02-19 03:33:55 · 7 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all, if he has to undo his pants because he simply ate too much, maybe he needs to buy bigger pants.
Sounds to me, even though you guys are not together, he assumes he can act just as he use to. Well he can't. You're not together anymore and it deems it inappropriate. All you should ever have to do is ask someone politely. If he is being stubborn, you have to put your foot down. Tell him we're not who we use to be and that action is no longer welcome in my house. If he can't comply to such a small thing like that, then he's is the one with the problem and needs a reality check. If he persists to verbally abuse you, just tell him to leave your house. You don't have to take anything from him. Being nice and being a doormat are too different concepts. He may not always sound serious when he says it, but he is still objecting, right? Thats all the reason you need.
2007-02-19 03:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex, right? What makes you hang out with him yet? I'm not saying you should be passing by each other like 2 trains, but just saying "Hi" when you meet him occasionally is enough. Trust me, if you just forget him this will help a lot for you to go on with your own life and find someone who will respect you, love you and care for you. Your ex has no business in your house.
2007-02-19 03:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Victory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound mean in the answer, but I really don't get what you're saying. I get the part about treating you like an acquaintance, and that doesn't seem right, but I don't understand the rest?
2007-02-19 03:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ema Nova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're mum and dad at the on the spot are not continually going to note each ingredient you do. i understand the way you sense. i have felt that way. i get over it. Like that one time I did stuff around the homestead. It replaced into sparkling for once. My mom did not supply a flying f***. She advised me i did not do it the way that she does it. i'm ok although.
2016-10-17 08:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by zeckzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he even come to your house?
He should respect your house, your house means your rules.
If it bugs you that much, dont have him over anymore, or dont eat around him.
2007-02-19 03:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have done the same and told him to use the washroom----for example would u want someone scratching their itchy drawers in front of you---no---then send them to the bathroom LOL
it's all the same thing---if you are poking and proding around down there then please do so in the washroom
2007-02-19 03:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to respect you.
2007-02-19 03:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋