Ive been seeing this guy for a month and a half.hes been really great to me,has taken me home to meet parents,made plans for future(I am his first Girlfriend in 2yrs)BUT,last thursday,i saw one of his "girl"friends all over him and freaked out.he was pretty mad saying I embarassed him.He didnt talk to me all night thurs, or all day and night friday.He finally returned my call on Sat morning.I had a talk with him and he said of course he still wants to be with me,he was just really mad on Fri and had to think.On Sat he had to build something to help his buddy out,and ended up ditching out on his friends bday limo(that i was in)and working on this project until 4am.he never called me all night.yesterday,he didnt answer my calls until about 3pm,he said he was going to do some s*** and to work on this thing again.I said I had to talk to him in person, he said he would call be back, but the never did.Why is he acting like this? is he still mad about what happened.Should i give him space?
2007-02-19 03:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him some space. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now and i had to learn that giving a man space is important. They tend to need time to think.... about everything. So when he seems like he's in one of those moods where he just does'nt want to talk i let him do what he has to do and then he's fine and ready to be with me.
As for this guy, dont jump right to conclusions although most of the time women come to conclusions that tend to be very correct. Just keep on getting to know him so that you can learn to figure out what he likes and does'nt like so that you can build a healthy relationship with him. Maybe its just the fact he has'nt been in a relationship for a while so he's still trying to get back into the swing of things or he's just running a little scared right now. Stop calling, thats part of giving him space, let him call you so that you know he's ready to talk.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-19 03:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you.... this is a new relationship and your actions could have spooked him and now he is rethinking the choice to be with you. Stop calling him.... let him call you becasue if he initiates this, then you will know he is probably still interested in you.... if he never calls you know to let him go because if he freaks out over something small like that... he definately wont stick around when it gets hard in the future.
2007-02-19 03:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by kjphillips_hines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should give him some space. But you did the right thing by freaking out on him. It sounds like something is going on. Plus would you really want to be with someone who does not want to be with you.
2007-02-19 03:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he got catch at something he did not want you to know about. This probably wasn't the first time he has missed around on you. My advice to you is to move on WHY do you want this in your life??? Would you really trust him again?? Quit calling him and get on with your life.
2007-02-19 03:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by nthernlites40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say give them a chance to prove themself but girl I really think hes using you
2007-02-19 03:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he wants to break up with u and he dosent know how to say it so hes just ignoring u instead...YESS give him space..he may not like u as much anymore
2007-02-19 03:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i would have freaked 2 and really i think its cuz hes a guy and its in all there nature to be a*# holes so f#*! him and get someone new
2007-02-19 03:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic its ok...just give him his space for now, when he is ready everything will be back to normal!!! : )
Good luck!!!♥
2007-02-19 03:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dance♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to complicated time to move on.
2007-02-19 03:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jack H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋