Okay, i've Been on here quite alot asking for advice about this Guy that's muslim and We fooled around and he gave me the Guilt trip about it but Repeatly kept coming back for about 3 times and that 3rd time he said he was done and To stop calling him and he's Not going to call me anymore and text me Either and when I called him late last week, He didn't answer so I assumed he was finished, etc. Okay, so usually I see him today around 4:15 and Im not sure if I am because before we stopped talking he said he Hope he doesn't see me today around because he's Going to get a car, and Yeah, that sounds Harsh, but I really don't understand How a Guy can say he Feels "Light" when he thinks about me and that when he First kissed me he Said at first he didn't feel anything, But when he got back home, he told me He felt something, like heat between us Or something, and Obviously he Cannot turn off "Those" feelings that fast, Or Can he? Or did he Ever feel Anything at all, like making it All up??
2007-02-19 03:25:37 · 17 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But if He's Done with me, Why did he Keep coming back all Those Times (Advice on this Question too Plz).
2007-02-19 03:30:49 · update #1
The last thing he said before he Left besides he's not coming back over anymore Was Im not good for His spirit and That he should have waited before he got married, But he wasn't a Virgin or anything, He was in Prison 4 years before that and didn't have contact with Any girl and I was the Only girl that approached Him and talked to Him in a while, The 4 Years! Even when I got his # he said "Don't get me Wrong, I Love girls, it's just something else and it's My Religion and I Can't date" and he also Applied that all his other "So Called" relationships in the Past was just based on sex and I Told him well im Different and Im Not just about that, etc. He then said if He had sex with a Girl he Felt he connected with, The sex would turn into Something More and he'll Become Crazy about the Girl, and All of our Phone conversations was 3 hours long or more and He told me that talking on the Phone wasn't going to work because my Voice is too Sexy! Advice Plz on this added one!
2007-02-19 03:53:20 · update #2
"He's just not that into you". Anytime a dude rejects you, this is a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig red flag......c'mon girl. Stop the "appointments" and move on.
2007-02-19 03:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by cgirl97 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be with you, he got what he wanted out of you. He has already told you he doesn't want to see or hear from you. You sound like you are in denial. Accept it. I think what he was feeling between you, "heat" as you put it, was purely sexual. If he ever comes around or you bump into one another again even after he has said to basically go away it probably will only lead to sex, nothing more. Sorry kiddo but you need to move on. I am sure that there is a very caring guy out there for you somewhere........only time will tell. Good-luck.
2007-02-19 11:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a player. And he sounds like he's using and abusing priviledges. Sometimes it is easier to just give in and hope for the best. But in the end, it leaves us feeling worthless, sad and questioning ourselves. That is sooo not the way it should be. It is difficult, but DO NOT answer calls. I have one guy that was such a loser that I dated. Ironically, he was wealthy and a prestigious member of local society, (you never can tell, huh?) anyway, he was a jerk. It was not easy but I blew him off. I found someone who is perfect for me, treats me like a princess and never raises his voice to me. I'm happy and have been so for three years. Where am I going with this? well, that JERK STILL calls me after THREE YEARS! i don't answer the calls and don't give in or reply to email. THREE YEARS! So don't expect him to give up on you, girl. Just be the strong one and decide for yourself that you're above that. It is not easy but once done, it is a good thing.
2007-02-19 11:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by ☽☮★♥ Alphα Fєmmє Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has Muslim faiths that would probably not coincide with his actions concerning being with you in a sexual relationship, but he is a man and if it is offered to them, they will take it.
He was done with you to start with, don't keep pushing yourself on him, he has lost respect for you already and there are no answer's as to why he said anything other than , I don't want you. Sorry, best to just avoid him.
2007-02-19 11:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hatem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what u are talking about involves only lust. yes he can and has turned off his feelings for u, and u need to do the same. accept the truth here, he probably was just using u, and has another girlfriend or wife somewhere. he has just decided he doesn't want to be with u, and why question it just on the basis of lust, and the intimate feelings we feel as it isn't love.
2007-02-19 11:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little confused to me. If he "claims" he has or had feelings for you he will eventually come around and he will come back to you. Don't bug him or continue to call him though he might get aggravated and push you farther away or get all big headed and think that hes got you wrapped around his finger. Give it some time and see what happens.
2007-02-19 11:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what he's doing is playing a dangerous game and you'll be the one hurt by it ... he tells you he's not interested or can't be interested but yet he still comes back .. he has you intrigued ... so you will call and look for him ... then he disappears for a bit .. you get frantic trying to look for him .. then when you do forget him .. he comes back telling you he was wrong and he loves you ... but he doesn't he just has you wanting him .. run now before you get sucked in .
2007-02-19 11:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't really care to tell ya the truth. Maybe he ws trying to get in your pants. Guys who are horny will try all that they can. Don't talk with him anymore, he is a just big waste of your time.
good luck
2007-02-19 11:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by momma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you move on....he sounds like a real jerk....so if he comes back to you.....say "im done with you"....its what he deserves and its better for you!!!â¥
2007-02-19 11:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Dance♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a victim and change your number!!
2007-02-19 11:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by jacquie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋