someone ditched me i dont have a answer need u alls help
2007-02-19 03:24:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur bf has ditched u, by this action he is indirectly communicating that he does not love u ..........
this is not a true love(its a one-sidedlove)
and it is for ur own good bcoz now u dont ve to think abt ppl who dont love u.
stop thinking abt him, dont try to be frnds wid him...this ll only add to ur problem.
go to some beauty parlour, get ur facials done...also manicure and pedicure....change ur hair style ...and also buy some new clothes.....now u r single...
good days r back...u can flirt...wear watever u like and go where ever u want ....u dont ve to take any permissions and dont ve to call him again and again and talk stupid, irrelivent things long hours....
make new frnds (males ofcourse) and use ur body language and facial expressions to attract them...dont fall in love for next 1 yr and enjoy ur "single" status.
ur bf ditched u bcoz u satisfied him 100% physically
nevr give ur bf everything he wants alwas keep something pending and see how the game unfolds....
true love is a myth......if u think that u have a true love for someone then its a mistake.
its difficult to realise a true love....
couple, even after living together for more than 10 years r nt able to love ech other.
teen-agers get attracted/infatuated and conclude that they r experiencing true love.
wen u fall in a close relationship for the first time u tend to think that "HE IS THE ONLY ONE AND I CANNOT GET ANYONE BETTER THAN HIM"
This notion is completely wrong.this is y we get stached to someone emotionally.
2007-02-19 05:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by understanding_bf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person doesn't feel the same as you unfortunately. You will never understand unless you have seen the "dumper's" point of view. I bet that person never gave you any answers, but the answer is in their actions and not their words. That person is a coward by being selfish by not giving you closure. Avoiding the issue is not the right thing to do. Its a selfish thing to do to avoid all the drama of a healthy breakup.
2007-02-19 03:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I had that same problem. There's plenty of interpretations of true love. Maybe that someone decided on what they really needed, and thought it was time they left to find it. It's not your fault. If you didn't have what they needed, they probably didn't what you needed either. As hard as it is, you should try to move on and find someone who is absolutely perfect for you in every aspect. There's someone for everyone, and you just have to go out and find them!
2007-02-19 03:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is equal on both sides. You loved her but she didn't feel the same back so it wasn't true love. BUT this means it was wrong and you haven't found your true love yet. Stop getting upset and start looking again, you will find her. Sometimes they are there right under your nose - look closer to home.
2007-02-19 03:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by JJ88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actual love is the place you adore your considerable different no count what they do and despite happens. Does it exist. i'm uncertain. some boys do choose for to play ladies yet some individuals ladies choose for to play adult men besides. some human beings are not very superb with love and basically choose for their relaxing and be achieved. Its basically the way some human beings are. all human beings have hearts yet all of them love in diverse techniques. Few human beings love like in fairytales. i wish this permits.
2016-10-02 09:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by newborn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... they might be scared. if they found out that you truly love them and they might not know what to do and they might not know how to act its kinda sad from were im standing because i went though that ... it hurt for a long long time... but if you trully love them you have to let them go, i went though it i loved him so much that i had to let him go because if i didnt then i wouldnt be able to talk to him again. its going to get better you need to give your self some time but you will get back on your feet in a while . i hope you get the answer you need.. i hope it all works out for you it didnt for me but i hope it does for you
2007-02-19 03:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by brittany69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when one gets attracted with other person just based on worldly looks and such stuff ,there may not be much depth in the relationship .if only one can understand and acceptr another as hge/she is without compelling them to change on our own tunes ways ..then we can call it real love...
2007-02-19 03:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by arabflavr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
monica, i feel sorry for you, the person who ditched may be a selfish one. so please thank god for seeing his original face before you decide to live along with him. do not feel ashamed you may get a wonderful man to reciprocate your love all the best
2007-02-19 03:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by ayal p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a two way street. Its no point if only one person is in love .
2007-02-19 03:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey its all about destiny true people never ditch anybody
2007-02-19 03:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋