if a guy texts you every now and then to meet up with him when he is ot on the town, does he really like you?we only meet by chance if we are out on the same nite. we live in different cities.
i have stayed over his place a few times. i havent slept with him. even tho he wants too.
this texting stuff whenever we are out in town has been going on for a while. it can be months before we eventually meet!
he knows that i came out of a serious 6 year relationship 8 months ago. he knows my ex but hes now moved away. they were work colleagues.
when we are together he always compliments me etc etc.
he used to contact me when i was in my relationship.i didnt end my relationship for this guy.
he is 29 and single.
2007-02-19 03:14:08 · 21 answers · asked by jo w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like this guy.
he does ask about my ex when we are together sometimes.
2007-02-19 03:14:41 · update #1
he likes you
2007-02-19 03:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Funky. I don't like the sounds of this guy. He should not have been contacting you when you were with previous boyfriend. He only texts when he's out on town. Sounds like he's lookin for a good time. Since he worked with your ex, I am wondering what info he received about you? He shouldn't bring up sex either. That is wierd of him to ask about your ex, too. I don't see an interest in you for the right reasons. Stay solo, and go home after a night on the town. This is the first way to get respect. Sounds like you are a convenience and not priority.
2007-02-19 03:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by cgirl97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you like him......he seems to also like you. Don't be eager to give it up to him, you must build some trust........if he is a colleague of your ex....you don't want this guy rubbing anything in your ex's nose. Find out why you only hear from him when is going out on the town? I am assuming he may live close by. Go very slow with this young man, seems like he would call/text a lot more if he lives in town. Next time don't spend the night when you go out (even though you have refrained from intamacy). See if he comments on why you went back home......
2007-02-19 03:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants to make sure that you are fully over your Ex before he begins to commit to a relationship with you which it maybe.
From what i sound likes to me if the two of yous are will enough or even if you just want fun then arrange to meet up one night a take it at a pace you feel confortable and see where things go from there.
Go on girlfriend you;ll have a ball xxxxx Lynda
2007-02-19 03:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lynda27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy is simply interested in you. You seem to know him even if not too well. You were in a relationship before now and therefore know what you want in a man. If he meets up, give him a chance. BUT do not make a second mistake. Good luck.
2007-02-19 03:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if a guy likes you he will call you up and ask you out in advance. If he texts you now and then in the hope you'll be out in the same place, it means he's leaving it to chance.
If he really likes you then he wouldn't leave it to chance - he'd make sure he could take you on a proper date rather than seeing you on a night out and trying to take you home and sleep with you. Of course he wants to sleep with you - he's a guy.
Ok, so you might still think he likes you based on the more optimistic opinions on here. So even if he does, would you really like to be with someone who leaves it to chance? Wouldn't you prefer to be with a guy who doesn't want to miss out on the opportunity of your company and will pull out all the stops first before expecting to sleep with you?
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2007-02-19 03:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you yes but he probably likes 20 other girls as well. If he wanted it to b serious then he would of made a proper move. If u want to find out where you stand, you gotta ask - its a case of u dont ask, u dont get. good luck!
2007-02-19 03:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, he might really like you, but be scared to tell you, or he might be using you for someone to go with when hes out. I'd just bite the bullet and ask!
2007-02-19 03:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 say it but by the sounds of it he is tryin 2 get in ur boxers, watch things change when u do have sex if u do.
2007-02-19 03:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by bujibig6funkin9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a waster,on the look out for something when he's got nothing better.
don't belittle yourself,keep away big time,his type is nothing but trouble and strife.
seriously keep well clear.
2007-02-19 03:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by fozzy01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are human.Guys suck.If he REALLY wanted to and you did too,you BOTH would have already donethe deed.If you desire another relationship,find a less elusive guy who doesn't have commitment issues.Good luck.
2007-02-19 03:18:19 · answer #11 · answered by frank 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋