all these guys are always looking at my body and some of them said they would go out with me but im not preppy enough or crap like tht but they only want me for my body and idk wht to do about it every guy i went out with was a perv and i cant find a guy tht likes me for me and not my body idk wht to do... please help
2007-02-19 03:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by Marya L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We guys, like to see the body, as a goal if you will... A woman's body is like a summary of a book, it gives you a preview of what may or may not be the best of the storyline. But, I digress, if you do dress yourself down and still have to beat us off with a stick then, we want more from you then your body. Your body would just be a bonus. By the way, wanting someone from the way they look is only natural, and guys liking girls for their body is also just another natural thing.
2007-02-19 03:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well about 99% of guys are pigs there is that 1% that is not. how you can find a guy that likes you for you is write down everything you want him to be. now not that fake sweep you off you feet stuff. but some real qualities. when you do that start dating. if they don't have the qualities you want do date them anymore.
2007-02-19 03:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by liznjames_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happening to me to. 4 guys asked me out at once because they liked my body and they always talk about my asss and they made up something called the swing cuz when i walk..enough said. alot of guys are just perves ignore them.
2007-02-19 03:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say, is keep looking, they are out there, it also depends, how old are you? if your a teenager, most those guys are just horny right now... not all, but most... but around your mid 20's guys mature and see a lot of women for who they really are... well, lol, i guess not all. but if you are older, then just KEEP LOOKING. maybe your looking for the wrong type of guy too, in the wrong places. try the library or a book store lol ♥
2007-02-19 03:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥Dominatrix♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you like someone you are attracted to them first or you wouldn't talk to them. I would just keep hanging out with guys as friends. Just don't sleep with them. They will respect you more! Adventually you will meet someone that will like you for you. Try wearing baggy cloths then they can't really tell what you're body looks like.
2007-02-19 03:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a huge stereotype!!! Not all guys just care about a women's body. There r guys who care about the personality.
2007-02-19 03:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u r blessed with such a wonderful body that every guy comes behind like a dog. u must be proud of it. btw, got a pic ? ;)
2007-02-19 03:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys or going to look at things like that at first. because attraction is well.... what attracts someone to you. you need to find a guy that acts respectful and not like a pig. and then let him get to know you.
2007-02-19 03:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear sweats and hoodies to school and don't show your body off as much and if guys still talk to you that means they like you and then you found a guy who likes you and not so much your body
2007-02-19 03:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls dont have much else to offer.
2007-02-19 03:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Monkey Boy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋