There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, but it seems he still wants to look, or be near my work area. One day, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Then I went to the fridge to get my lunch and walked back to my desk, and later he walks past my desk fastly.
2007-02-19 03:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my diagnosis: Yer Nuts.
2007-02-19 03:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by reaganontherock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy: you help him buy the engagement ring for another girl = you are not interested in him.
He proabably only asked for your help to test your reaction, you failed miserably. Now he's sulking.
Just ignore him and chat to other guys, he will soon make another approach - if you still want him by then.
2007-02-19 11:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he is the one really really weird. i am sorry but i have no clue what he wants... if i were you, i will just ignore him. i dont know what he wants from you, but the one thing i dont want is if you try something and he thinks you like him or something.... no way!
so just forget whatever he said or he did. he is just too weird and i truly beleive he is the one really should heading to the therapy right now!!
2007-02-19 11:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by honeycoco23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds weird! maybe he was getting the wrong impression from you being nice...guys are weird like that! id say just move on. if he wants to still be friends with you, let him contact you first!
2007-02-19 11:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're delusional and apparently unable to see yourself as others see you.
I agree with him. It would probably be a good idea to get a professional opinion about whether your interpersonal behavior is as off-putting as he suggests.
2007-02-19 11:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who care, hes being childish/you really weird. just ignore him back and see how things go on
2007-02-19 11:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋