For guys to answer and girls to read?

Question

what message does the following send to guys? What does it tell you about the girl?
girls calling guys for dates...
girls flashing....
girls dressing in short skirts, shorts, etc...
girls hanging all over guys...
girls getting sloppy drunk....
Basically girls who completely disrespect themselves and tier bodies.

Is this the type of girl that you would date long term, take home to meet your parents. Is this the type of girl that you would consider marrying....What type of girl would you consider being your GF and possibly marrying....what does a gilrs behavior and actions say about her.....what do you really look for in a long term GF. We all know that the any girl that dresses and acts as the described above.....we know that those girls are just fun? But would you actually consider marrying them.

some good answers.....I guess thought waht I am asking is.....if girls dress in this manner......is it telling you that she is easy?
is it telling you that she respects herself? and would you want this type of person to be the mother of your children?

Answer 1

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Guys want a "woman" in public and a freak in the bed.
Seriously, girls/women like you mention above are great - without commitment.
These are the women that guys in relationships will cheat with.
Girls/women like you mentioned above do not have the qualities that guys are looking for to meet the family. Who wants the fam to see their woman pissy drunk in public?
When she walks out the door, she is a representation of him (and herself). Vice versa.
Guys who do take these girls/women - ARE NOT looking for long term.
They are accepting of these qualities because at the end of the day, physically, they get what they want.

Marriage for these? Out of the question.
BUT, there's a sucker born every minute.
They are usually found in the strip clubs with about $200 worth of dollar bills.

One love.....................

Answer 2

1. Barely any makeup 2. A mix in between (hair and makeup done, and comfortable clothes) 3. I am kind of a shy person, so I prefer that she starts the conversation first. But, it depends on the situation. Sometimes it is necessary for me to start the conversation. 4. I would prefer a girl of that type since my family and culture values that (not trying to be a push over or anything). 5. Thin amount of eyeliner, small amount of mascara 6. Outgoing and confident. 7. Natural. Don't care about length as long as it isn't weird or anything. 8. Yes. 9. Depends. If it is on a positive note, then it is ok. I don't like people lecturing me about religion. Including my own. 10. Generally black. 11. Eyes, boobs, stomach, lips, eyes. Guys opinions may vary though.

Answer 3

Well, I would look for a few of these things, in moderation, in a girl I'd want to marry, or bring home to my parents. For example, maybe a girl who'd "join the mile high club" with me, or run topless through a crowd at Mardi Gras, would be an adventuresome, fun girl who'd be fun for a long time to come.
And ABSOLUTELY girls who call guys for dates... I like a girl who knows what she wants! (My current fiance e-mailed me and said "It's now the appropriate time to ask me for a drink!") I like assertive girls.

Now, someone who is a complete sleeze, always drunk, ALWAYS wearing short, revealing clothes is not sexy at all. And above all I have to have someone who respects themselves.
But even in the nice girls there should be just a little tweak of fire. :)

Answer 4

Well it all depends if they would know how to cook and clean and take care of the house. Because it's all what they have inside not what they dress like or what they do. If you have one as a gf you will get to know what she does and doesn't do at her house. ANd by looking in her room when yuou visited her you could tell a lot about her. also by the way she handled herself iaround her family and siblings. SO it doesn't matter what they do or how they dress it all comes out with what's inside and how they really take care of themselves in all environments.

Answer 5

I don't have any objections with a girl asking a guy out. Just as long as it's to get to know the person and not a ticket to bed. All other behaviours I would say that the girl needs to learn some control before she can be ready for marrage.

Answer 6

I was "just" going to read, but.....

They do it all the time!!!

Some guys think the naughty girl is the best one to marry, until they do. Some men are immature and so this type, the ones that will end up hurting them in the long run, is what they seek out. They don't realize she is just performing, and after marriage, or committed relationship, they run out of script.

Answer 7

You seem to be the plaintif and the judge at the same time. I don't see anything wrong in a girl expressing herself. I want to say that majority of such gurls who match this description are very loving and caring. Oh yes, I'm a guy and I can marry such a gurl if I see her as my match in all ramifications. To me, the concept of morality is very relative.

Answer 8

To me it states that she totally disrepects herself and has very low self esteem. If she flashes, gets sloppy drunk, hanging all over guys, means she is just trying to draw attention to herself and is just a player. I would run as fast as I could. I look for the shy ones who dress modest and respect their bodies and their actions.

Answer 9

This is the type of girl for a quick bj. Nothing more. If a girl has so little self respect, how can she expect any from a man?

Answer 10

Nope, no long-term relationship with them...I always went for the quiet, considerate, polite, self respecting girls, and my wife has those qualities and much more...and that's what we men want to settle with.