Right, I was supposed to go out tonight with my bf to dinner and a movie (he has just been paid).
My mate has called to say that she is upset over something so I said that she should come to dinner with us (it was only to pizza express) so she can talk it over and then we could head off to the movie.
when i called him to see if this would be ok he said that it would be fine that one of his mates (a girl) is heading down to his bar for 4.30 for a few drinks.... he finishes at 5.... we were supposed to meet at 5.15.... Now this same girl couldnt come out last night cos she didnt have any money...
Am I right to be bothered... ?
2007-02-19 03:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by EveyM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no! how old are you? 12?
2007-02-19 03:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm trying to put myself in your situaiton and I would be a little upset too. Not jelous but maybe concerned. I wouldn't want my bf paying for another girls drinks, but then again if they are friends and you trust your bf then I guess there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-02-19 03:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by 88776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get your question, I thought you was going to say your boyfriend was upset with you for bringing a friend for a meal (rightly so) but then you changed to something completely different and irrelevant to the bringing a friend thing?????
Ill come back in ten mins explain...
2007-02-19 03:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be bothred and you have the right to be but get the full story first. Dont go making a moutain out of a molehill. If it turns out you are making a big deal out of nothing, he wont be very happy with you. But if his story doesn't add up, go for it.
2007-02-19 03:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amy_Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he trumped your "date interruption" with one of his own, which was guaranteed to annoy you in return. It looks like a bit of a power game between you two?
You shouldn't invite anyone onto your dates with him, and he shouldn't have reasons to be late for your dates either. Just make time for one another that's private, and you'll stop the tug-of-war for attention.
2007-02-19 03:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun you've lost me - what are you upset over? the fact his friend didnt go or what?? Im not sure what your problem is but I cant for the life of me see what you're bothered about!
xx
2007-02-19 03:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crappest question of the year award
2007-02-19 03:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by G P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe they are just mates, then no, why should it bother you, unless you don't trust him or her ??
2007-02-19 03:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M NOT SURE THAT I UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEM...ARE YOU ANNOYED THAT HE MAY BE BUYING HER DRINKS? IS SHE A MUTUAL FRIEND? OR DO YOU NOT WANT THEM TO SPEND TIMR TOGETHER WITHOUT YOU?
2007-02-19 03:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by SCOOTER'S GRANDMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why you should worry about it
2007-02-19 03:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋