a gurl in my life whom i met in chat and came to know that she was bit depressed in life...i decided to care her for life...she liked me n we met and things went very great and intimate...she was one who already had some abuses by guys and heartbreaks too...she had told me and i was aware of that too....i gave her assurance that i will b there for her no matter what happens..but still she was afraid and perhaps negative....months passed she got busy with her new job and wasnt giving me much importance but used to kal me...i skolded her in mails..at a point to delete my scolding mails i logged in her personal id to delete it...there i accessed her personal mails and came to know her more personal abuses...and felt bad and wanted to talk about it to her....when i told her she really went mad and our relationship ended and she hated me....months passed later i scolded her back for hating me n said goodbye for having been true and she inturn felt bad n sorry...now she isnt talking to me...
2007-02-19 02:52:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, all i can say is go to her house and appologize. if i were her, i would forgive you :-)
p.s. NEVER EVER EVER go into someone's personal files!!!
p.p.s. NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER EVER delete something in someone's personal files!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 03:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by look _inside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...what?
So, you scolded a physically-abused girl with trust issues? Ok, bad, bad man.
You then broke in to her personal account and started deleting files? Bad, bad man.
You then proceeded to scold her some more because she got upset because YOU broke in to her personal files; Bad, BAD, ban man.
And now she doesn't talk to you?
Go scold yourself, mate and leave her alone. Stop trying to "help" her; there are enough insane women in this world already.
2007-02-19 11:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should slap yourself for been nosy and not realizing that the abuses she ahs suffered were private and if she wanted you to know them she would have told you. ANd besides I don't blame her for not talking with you. You never scold someone just because you feel like it,because seems you don't really have a reason to scold her. It seems you wanted to help her and then control her so I am glad she isn't talking to you. you need to grow up and remember to help someone iis to help because you want to help not because your doing it for a reason.
2007-02-19 11:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her again ok. Try this time...........
2007-02-19 10:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋