girl, they dance alot together and when the club was over she seen them talking all the way out and it even seemed like he wanted to get to know her even more....my friend asked her man where did they go out to after the club and he responded to a friends house. this is odd because after the club they usually go to the diner to eat, this particular night they went out to a so calls friends house..please help, i need some good advice to help me deal with this situation, he's denying the whole thing and im just trying to do the right thing for me once and for all... i need some good advice not anything ignorant ok people...so if you can please help me out over here ill appreciate it....
2007-02-19 02:49:57 · 6 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a tough situation, but you should be able to read your boyfriend. Look into his eyes and tell him to swear that nothing happened and you should be able to tell, if you can't tell then I guess you'll have to have your aunt come over and the three of you sit down and confron each other, this time his or her reaction might give you a clue to what the truth is.
2007-02-19 02:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is you Aunt a reliable source? Which one do you believe her or your boyfriend?
It sounds to me like your aunt had a lot of detail from what you said and that she was watching out for you.
If there is a lack of trust in your relationship then it would be hard to continue on. Do you always want to wonder where he is and what he is doing? I wouldn't. I know my husband and I always let each other know [even when we were dating at 1st] were are etc. It makes it wasy if you love someone to live your life like an open book and it sounds like your guy does not do that!!!!
It all comes down to what you want. What you feel comfortable with. For me I would want trust, security and that is part of loving someone.
Good luck!
2007-02-19 11:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked him, and he's denying everything, I'm afraid that doesn't sound very good. If you believe your aunt, and she has no personal grudges against your boyfriend, then I think you should call it quits. Just be sure that your aunt doesn't have a motive for breaking you guys up. If the whole thing was innocent, then your boyfriend has no need to lie.
2007-02-19 10:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhhm. This is a tough one. Wait. Are you sure that everything told to you by everyone is true? If you're sure that its true, why don't you tell him that your aunt saw him in the club? If he still denies it, and call your aunt a liar, that's when you should start to doubt him. If you're not sure if thats true, then you should research some things up by yourself. Dont just rely on what someone told you. Also, use your instinct. Good luck. = )
2007-02-19 11:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by boom boom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your aunt did not see your b/f kiss this girl so it could all be very innocent, how long are you with your b/f and do you really trust him because if you don't there really is no point in this relationship continuing, explain to your b/f how you feel and just tell him you want to know the truth, he might be telling you the truth,
2007-02-19 10:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by missdublin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help; I'm still looking up a definition for "seened"...
2007-02-19 10:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋