Ive been seeing this guy for a month and a half.hes been really great to me,has taken me home to meet parents,made plans for future (I am his first Girlfriend in 2yrs)BUT,last thursday,i saw one of his "girl"friends all over him and freaked out.he was pretty mad saying I embarassed him.He didnt talk to me all night thurs, or all day and night friday.He finally returned my call on Sat morning.I had a talk with him and he said of course he still wants to be with me,he was just really mad on Fri and had to think.On Sat he had to build something to help his buddy out,and ended up ditching out on his friends bday limo(that i was in)and working on this project until 4am.he never called me all night.yesterday,he didnt answer my calls until about 3pm,he said he was going to do some s*** and to work on this thing again.I said I had to talk to him in person, he said he would call be back, but the never did.Why is he acting like this? is he still mad about what happened.Should i give him space?
2007-02-19 02:48:58 · 14 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya... He just needs a time-out. Since you all have been through so much and even met his parents, I guess your relationship must be quite stable. One important aspect of a relationship is to give each other some personal space, but if you seriously mind his 'girl'friends and you jolly well know that he won't get away from them, you might need to reconsider this relationship.
After all this concerns your future, make your right choice now.
2007-02-19 02:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ever tell you that you were his only girlfriend? Did he let you know about the type of relationship he has with his friend?
What ever the answers to these questions.... you guys need to be apart.
Because;
Either he's a liar, you make really bad choices (when it comes to guys) or one or both of you is very immature. Can't tell from here, but it's not healthy... what ever the answer. You deserve more.
2007-02-19 10:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Common Sense 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he has found an interest somewhere else - in some one else.
A lot of guys are afraid to end a relationship because they don't want to "hurt someone's feelings". The reality of it is that they're cowards and don't want to face the music. In order to avoid breaking up with you, he is creating a situation where you will break up with him. That way he doesn't have to do the ending.
2007-02-19 10:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont give him space, give him a "bye-bye" for good! He's being a jerk and you deserve better. He's the guy in the relationship, so he should be doing his part as a man. Dont be dumb, dont do your part and his - if he's interested he should show it by doing what a real man does: try to win a girl's heart!
2007-02-19 11:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little space don't call him wait until he calls you if it was ment to be and he has feelings for you he wil call you don't push him you will be sorry and no you didn't over react I would've did the same thing. Good Luck
2007-02-19 10:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is cute in very small amounts, after that it gets you labeled as a Klingon. Yes, you need to back off a bit.
2007-02-19 10:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good idea!give him a bit of space and let him calm down.he is probz still angry about what happened!!!you should also try and talk to this girl he was with to see if anything is going on between them!!!i dont think it is your fault at all.oh yeah and also speak to his m8 he was supposedly with to see if he really was there!!!just be carefull your man doesnt finds out incase it will ruin your reletionship!!!everything should be alright!!!
2007-02-19 10:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his butt. Quit calling him.....he isn't being honest and up front with you. He should have thanked you for saving him from his ex....instead he is pissy with you? I'd give him space alright. Whatever you do....quit calling him, when he does decide to call you, don't take his calls. I think he is doing his project alright!
2007-02-19 11:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donot want to mess up your relationship but something is going on with him and that girl. And he does not want to tell you be very keen and observe his behavior whe u see him again. You did not overeact i would have done the same or worse
2007-02-19 10:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if he really cared about you he would apolagize for be with his ex like that he just wants you on the side just like hes doing with his ex he is very munipulative and dont but leave him it will hurt but he will hurt you more lateer i went thru it i thought no one knows him like i do but they were all right god bless you! i will be okay be tough leave hima nd dont look back or he will try to grt you back and cheat on you again and again!
2007-02-19 10:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋