My girlfriend wants to have a threesome?

Question

My girlfriend is bisexual. She wants to have a threesome with another female, but she don't have anyone in mind. I kind of have fear that after the threesome, she may start catching feelings for that female that's stronger than the feelings she have for me. She said she'll still love me after wards, but what do you think?

Answer 1

I say tell her you don't want to share her with anyone . You need to think twice about this relationship . One if you don't do it she is going to cheat . Two if you do , do it you are taking a chance she will catch feeling or even want different girls or leave you for a girl . Think about this real hard . GOOD LUCK !!!!

Answer 2

She probably just wants to experience what it's like to be a with a woman. Many women have these thoughts (which most won't admit) and it's a very normal and natural feeling.

I've had threesomes before and I can tell you that it's just sex, no emotions are involved here. The only danger that can await is if the sex if better with the other person.

Let me ask you a question, You are afraid that she'll develop feelings for this so-called other women but what if you enjoy the sex with this new women more.... how will that affect you ??

It's a touchy situation.. but if you are both interrested then you will need to choose a women (who is willing fo course) together and there will need to some rules and boundaries set.

Worked for me and my man just loves it.... I do too. It has really spiced up our relationship and we are stronger than ever because of it.

Answer 3

If she is suggesting it, she has someone in mind. You are dating a Bi girl so you have to accept that part of her life. If you are not comfortable with it tell her, but it may be a deal breaker. You run the risk of her falling for someone else just walking down the street, it dosn't just have to be about sex. If you are in to it, go for it. You have to remember she may think that you may fall for the other girl also. If you want to make it a good experience for all, focus on her the whole time, and don't, I repeat don't put any attention on the other girl, put it on your girlfriend. Then she will know that you care about her and then next time it will be all about you. Also she may not realize how she feels about you and another woman until she sees it so don't let that happen the first time and you will proablably get a second chance. Don't be selfish.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I think people can predict how they will feel about something before they do it, but a lot of times how they feel afterward is not what they expected.

Any time you add sexual playmates to your relationship you are taking a risk, especially if your relationship isn't rock solid, and completely without insecurities and jealousies beforehand.

If one party wants to add playmates, and the other does not, it typically doesn't end well whether they go for it or not...they aren't a good match sexually and one or the other partner often tends to end up resenting the other (either for not adding playmates, or for doing so and appearing to have more fun with the playmate than their partner).

Proceed carefully.

Answer 6

you have to be prepared. If you are not completely clear that this is what you want, don't do it. A threesome has to be done only if both are willing to experiment, not because she's hot towards another female.
The best way to do it is with a person neither of you know. Why don't you talk to a person who's done it before and see what you think afterwards?

Answer 7

Two words: Bad Idea. This is not something to be entered lightly. I think its great that you both already know that she is bi and are accepting of it...but it is a hard thing to watch as the person you love go off with someone else.

IF you do go through with it, choose a person so far removed from your personal lives that idea of one/both of you continuing one with this person is out of the question and discuss it in detail afterwards.

Every other guy on this site is probably still trying to stop panting at this point, you lucky bugger.

Answer 8

Dude, whatever happens happens. What will be, will be.

you should just be grateful that you can say youve had a threesome.....awesome.

If she has no feelings for you later down the track, Dont sweat it. It just means you two werent meant.


.......but you can still say you had a threesome. :-)

Answer 9

if she thinks sex is just a sex then it should not be problem. i mean, everyone has certain sexual fantasy. i think you hould ask yourself whether you, yourself feel comfortable doing it. if yes, then you should go ahead. she is also taking a risk that you might like the other girl instead. i judt dont think you should do it just for her. sex is something both of you enjoy. and even though you said no, she should understand because she loves you not only sexually.

Answer 10

JUSt think of the what can be done with two hot sexy women. If your not up for it tell them to come visit me then. But dude think how many girls you can get to by having your gf get them for the both of you. SO enjoy it while it lasts. Because like you said she might fall in love for someone else so enjoy it.