I really Like this girl that I've known for a year now, and We have hung out a couple of times this past month, and everytime we hang out we always laugh and have a good time, for valentines day I sent some flowers to her school, and she called me later that night to say thanks, and then we talked for like 20 minutes afterwards. However The next day she called me a couple of times and I didn't answer because I didn't have my phone with me. I tried calling her house but her parents said she moved out, and I called her cell phone but her cell got disconnected because she wasn't getting along with her parents. I then emailed her two friends to tell her that I was sorry for not answering her calls. One friend who I don't think likes me very much said I need to stop calling her so many times, I don't call her that much though!, and then she said that the girl I like dosen't want anything more than to be just friends, which really sucks because I like this girl a lot.
2007-02-19 02:25:10 · 15 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think her friends will tell her not to call me anymore??? Because I think its pretty obvious they don't like me for some reason.
2007-02-19 02:26:22 · update #1
If she really likes you, then it won't matter what her friends say or do. She's probably going through a tough time right now. Give her some space. Maybe in a week or so, see if you can casually run into her.
2007-02-19 02:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a girl, you are being a little overbearing though. Chill out dude! Exactly how many times did you try to contact her? Think about it. I think she got the message. She knows you like her. It sounds like she liked you. But have you thought about whats going on in her life right now? Try to not be so selfish for half a second. Her life is not exactly great with all this crap going on with her parents. Give it a day or two and try her friends again and this time make it just because you want to make sure she's ok. Try making it about somebody other than yourself and you have a better chance of her and her friends thinking you're a good guy. And try to be sincere, nobody likes a poser.
2007-02-19 10:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her friends are obviously trying to manipulate you, what you need to do is actually find out for yourself, maybe leave it alone for a while and then afterwords call again. If there is a answering machine tell her that yes you are sorry but other than that try and play it breezy, maybe laugh it off a little. And don't be so hard on yourself, panic and insecurity is what kills most relationships.
2007-02-19 10:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Bart H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying to contact the girl directly. Don't go through her friends, chances are she won't get the real story from them, because for some reason they don't like you. I'd call her house again, tell her parents that you're interested in her, and that you'd like a working phone number for her. Keep trying, the girl herself hasn't given you any clue that she doesn't like you.
2007-02-19 10:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's having parent problems, seems like now isn't a good time to be trying to set up a relationship. She's most likely already under a lot of stress and confussed.
2007-02-19 10:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by ifyoulovehim, t e l l him<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to the bottom of this and either e-mail her again or see if you can find her at her school and meet her face to face. Tell her why you didn't answer your phone and then see what happens. It looks to me, her friend is jealous.
2007-02-19 10:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to call you then after a 3 to 4 weeks she is not going to call you.
2007-02-19 10:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by alexandria347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling this girl directly,and not through friends.
2007-02-19 10:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i don't think she would over react and move out because you didn't answer.
i think she called you because she was like getting in a fight with her parents and they wanted her to move out.
i'm sure she likes you and knows your care because she wanted to talk to you while she was going through a hard time.
2007-02-19 10:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to talk to her in person that way you will know for sure you can't listen to other people they dont know how she feels (unless she told them) i would just talk to her directly if you can find out where she is but dont act like a harasser though
2007-02-19 10:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋