2007-02-19 02:19:25 · 9 answers · asked by Noosha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Listen to him talk; just give the gift of presence & acceptance of whatever emotions he expresses. Remind him many love him.
2007-02-19 04:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to comfort him is to just be there for him. do not force yourself on him. let him come to you and at the same time don't ignore him. there is nothing that can be said when a person loses a loved one that is comforting. remembering the good and funny and crazy times are always good and it keeps the mind off of death. take things day by day.
2007-02-19 10:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Machelle G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww I'm so sorry for him. I went threw the same thing because my sis just passed on a year ago. what I would do is invite him over.. watch t.v. and play games with him. you can always talk about it with him and know that he is in heaven with the Lord and even though he can't see his father he is probley right next to him.
2007-02-19 12:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him "whatever it takes and how ever long it takes for you to calm down, i'll be right here with you holding you"
just make him feel like he will always having someone to hold. he just needs love.. and since you two are friends hugging isn't against the line at all
2007-02-19 10:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're there for him if he needs anything. If he does, he'll come to you. Just listen to him, and don't say anything like, "Oh yea well when my grandpa died blah blah blah," because your grandpa or whoever is not his dad, and you're not him, and you don't know what he's going through.
2007-02-19 10:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him! It is a hard time for him he will come around and talk to you in his own time!
2007-02-19 10:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi noosha
the best thing to do in this situation is silence
go to him and be quite ... he/she will let u do the rest
u wod kno wat to do when to hug and when to say ur sorry
when somethng like this happens to somebody their mind is filled up with screaming noises and silence helps..
2007-02-19 10:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by marasim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writle a letter to him and said........am sorry for what happen to him talk to me when you need it
2007-02-19 10:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by alexandria347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
visit your friend and make her feel that your lonely for what happen.
2007-02-19 10:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋