she told me that she dont like to loose her parents.and she loves me truely and she cant loose me too. her parents dont like to accept our love.because she is a christian talking malayalam as her language and iam hindu talking telugu as my language.she can speak telugu but i cant speak malayalm.but we love each other very much.how can we both be together? plz answer me.
2007-02-19 02:15:18 · 18 answers · asked by chukkabharath 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she told me that she dont like to loose her parents.and she loves me truely and she cant loose me too. her parents dont like to accept our love.because she is a christian talking malayalam as her language and iam hindu talking telugu as my language.she can speak telugu but i cant speak malayalm.but we love each other very much.how can we both be together? my parents accept her and our love.she confusing alot choosing me or her parents.i want her only not her assets or her property.i want to care her alot.she told me that she finds a love that she search since her birth. iam lucky to hear that words. we both love each other very intimate and very truely.if i cant get her i cant live. i want to die. plz answer me guys.
2007-02-19 02:52:57 · update #1
The best situation is that someone loves you. Parents have their own feelings and aspirations for their children. Over a period of time, a love marriage would turn into an accepted marriage. In my opinion you should decide to get married and convey your parents (of both of you). I hope she would not lose her parents when her parents come to realise that the choice is a good one and a realistic one. Love has its own language so linuistic language does not carry much weight. Go ahead and have girl of choice otherwise you two would repent in future and life would be a hell for both of you.
Best of luck!
2007-02-26 22:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way you could help convince her parents that you are worthy of their daughter? Is the reason they don't accept you because of your religion or because of something else. Could you ask for a meeting with her parents so you can talk about their concerns with them. Perhaps they need a little bit of reassurance. I am Roman Catholic and married a Parsi and I am sure my parents had their reservations but they soon realised that it would be better for their child to be happy than not. I have been happily married for almost 17 years so it does can can work. You need to talk openly. Good luck.
2007-02-27 10:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are her parents against the pair of you? Has she asked them? Maybe they are afraid to let her go, or they fear that if you to are together that they wouldn't be able to protect her. Probably common fears for any parents to have. You just have to show them that you will protect her at all costs, take care of her, be there for her. Cause this is a very delicate situation which there may not be any solution but it is worth a try. Talk to them yourself if you feel that it is a good idea.
2007-02-19 10:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by nymphette13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Majority of Intercaste Love Marraiges have failed due to objection from parents either side. Here my very important question is How much you Lover her ? If she want to leave her parents and come to you it is very risky matter. But, one thing you have not specified that, is your parents have accepted your loved girl? even if she take one side risk, the other side she should be safe and happy. so, please see that, your parents are welcoming her in good heart. All parents want their daughter life should be safe and joy. Have you created such confidence with them?
My suggestions:
1. Love is not just attraction of body and mind. it is a union of a girl and boy to enjoy life long period. there is a risk in this are you ready with this ?
2. Please create confidence with Girl's parents that, you & your family members are taking care of their daughter.
3. Are you finacialy sound or trying to grab girl's assets? in Love there is no place for money or property. it is just Love.
4. If you are realy brillient try to mary her with her parents blessings.
2007-02-19 10:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by venkatesh.s s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no bars n love no religion ,no language.I m indian from kol speaking bengali and my husband is italian speaking italian language we comunicate n english .now its 4 yrs seens we married and we have two beautiful kids.we r leeding a good life.U have to marry her not her parents try to make her undst.I think she should go against her parents n marry .but if if and only if u 2 r really n love deeply.Parents r happy 2 see their kids happy it will b a matter of time when they will accept u .trust me parents cant stay angry long.
2007-02-19 15:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r a christian, then pray to god he'll surely help u if its his will.
If u r not a christian then forget her bcoz christian parents dont like their children gettin married 2 a non christian.
Never ever think of running away and marrying bcoz its a sin her will never accept her again.And u'll cause her to sin.
2007-02-19 10:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is fickle-minded and unsure. give her time, and her parents. Wait for a year or two. If they don't come around, forget her. she is not worth waiting for. You will find someone better.
2007-02-27 09:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by kumarcl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have faith and patience, love will find a way!! In the meantime give her a break and do what is best for her in the long run.
2007-02-19 10:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adopt her parents & they will teach you malayalam & you teach them telugu and you all live happily everafter !!!!
2007-02-24 09:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by easyrecognition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to prove that you are the good man for her or learn her malayalam language
2007-02-23 18:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by bluff master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋