I have a serious crush on my friend Sebastian. He knows this (I think) and he crushes on me back (I think). He asked me out once and we had a great time. I want to do it again, but my parents are kind of skeptical. They only let me go to Starbucks after school with him. He once asked me to the movies, but I couldn't go because my mom thought going to a dark place with a boy was "inappropriate!" I'm not like that! He hasn't asked me out since the movie thing. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (He's as close as I've ever gotten to a boyfriend. Don't wanna ruin it!) Should I ask him out to Starbucks? Should I sneak out to other places? Should I wait for him to ask me out? I'M CONFUZZLED!
2007-02-19 02:14:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of it depends on your age. Don't sneak out, your mom will find out, and then you won't even be able to go to Starbuck's. It's not that your mom doesn't trust you, it's that she doesn't trust him. She doesn't know him! Ask your mom if it's okay for you to invite him over for dinner so that they can meet him, or if he can come hang out at your house. That way she can get to know him and trust him, and maybe that movie can still happen. If he's not game for it, then he doesn't see you as worth the trouble, and if that's the case then he's not worth it either. It sounds like you've got plenty of time for a boyfriend.
2007-02-19 02:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy solution.You have girlfriends you do fun stuff with on the weekends right like going to the movies,mall,etc.... right. Well mom doesnt know if you go meet g/fs :).... Its not your fault that Sebastian just happens to be there with his friends too.Call him Not from HOME.Meet up with some of your friends @ movies and him and his friends or by his self whatever...Ditch your friends they will understand if they know your mom and what the whole deal is.And ur covered,go see a show.Or somewhere else.However keep in mind that your mom could think your trying to pull a fast one on her too sneek around I would not be opposed to spying .I m a cool mom and Im really cool with my kid.GoodLuck2 you.
2007-02-19 10:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by kimmysue34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you tried asking your Mom to go to the movies with you'll and show her how innocent it can be. ANd if you meet him somewhere make sure you stay there. What will happen if your mom happens to go check on you and your not there. It might go worse on you and maybe they won't allow you to se him anymore. So maybe if you have any brothers or sisters they can go with you'll to the movies and report to your Mom. But don't do nothing where the situation will get worse.
2007-02-19 10:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that you are confused, but it is your time to strike back. He may be just as confused as you, so if you like each other, then show him you do and ask him out. But only if you got the time and money to ask him out. If you think you can get out the house without your parents knowing, sneakout because if they catch you, you'll be in trouble...
2007-02-19 10:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy, tell him you like him and take it from there. Explain the reason you couldn't go to cinema because of your mum but let him know that you would have loved to have gone with him if you could.good luck for the future kid.
2007-02-19 10:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by donna e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confuzzled.. haha one of my favorite words..
anyway, two words to fix your problem, 'group date'.
2007-02-19 10:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by ifyoulovehim, t e l l him<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋