I'm talking about a gf/bf, best friend, etc. Someone that you just got "bored" with and didn't see any reason to talk to them anymore. Anyone ever just cut off all contact? How did it make you feel afterwards? I'm kinda feeling bad, but I don't see how I can go back and do it all over again. Not sure even if I would..
2007-02-19 02:10:34 · 9 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, a guy that was a good friend who i started developing feelings for and he didn't feel the same, i had to do it to get over him, and yes i would do it over again because if not i would probably still have those feelings for him. i would like to talk to him in the future though.
2007-02-19 02:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always a reason for doing things - either we do it consciously or unconsciously.
We leave people behind because they may be boring, or too nice, or too something.... May be theres not too many things in common. Maybe they didnt provide the support you needed at that time in your life.
But it seems like you are ready for that kind of person to be in your life now. I say go look for that person. Be honest with them, and just let them know why you drifted off and why you're back.
I did that once, thanks to a good friend's advice. Eventhough i went back but didnt stay in that person's life, I'd do it again, simply because i am in peace with myself now, and it feels great!
2007-02-19 02:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i do that a lot. If they dont wanna talk why b my friend or boyfriend. they were sad afterwards i told them if they wanted to still have contact with me they should have been talking. You should, just find some friends that your able to talk to any time when you want to.
2007-02-19 02:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change, people grow apart - that's just life, you never stay friends with the same people throughout your life that would be boring!
Don't feel bad about it. Life's too short to hang out with people who bore you.
2007-02-19 02:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by peaches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on exactly what took place. It sounds to me like you just dumped this person because you felt like it and now you're feeling guilty. Good; you should.
If you want to end a relationship, be man enough to do it face to face.
2007-02-19 02:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I always had a good reason. Now, friendships sometimes drift apart due to location, etc.
2007-02-19 02:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did it. with my unmarried miserable old aunt,even if im showing nice things to her she doesnt appreciate it instead she keep on bad mouthing me so i promise to myself never to keep in contact with her anymore
2007-02-19 02:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never..its always a good reason,but sometimes it could be a very stupid reason.lol
2007-02-19 02:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, never.
2007-02-19 05:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋