My girlfriend wanted to talk to me. She said it was very important and after she blew me off this morning I told her just to text me. This is what she sent me…..
"i don't love you. How can i love someone who has made me cry for the past two nights? Who has me in tears right now!! Who ignores me for two days straight? Who screams at me in the car till I'm in tears because they think I'm lying when I wasn't! How can i love you when i am never on your mind? While you are trying to meet other girls behind my back even after being with me for TWO YEARS. How can i love you when all I do is cry? When you don't care one single bit that i cry! I said i needed to talk to you and all you could do was tell me to text you. So I'm writing this HERE IT IS!! I wanted a valentines day with you...considering we couldn't do anything on Wednesday. I went out of my way to buy you gifts I knew you would like and you lie to me tell me you got me stuff when in reality YOU FORGOT! How can you forget about me?? Am I not that important to you? I don’t want to cry anymore over you. I don’t want to cry PERIOD! I just want to be HAPPY!! I got you one more thing for Valentines Day that I did not give you. I wanted to wait till our actual Valentines Day date which was supposed to be tomorrow. But I realize today that Monday is never going to come! So here is my note to you! Yes I’m crying! Yes I’m VERY VERY UPSET right now and yes I just want you to hold me in your arms and tell me everything is going to be ok. But today is the LAST DAY I will EVER cry over you!! Things will be ok with or without you in my life!
I think I REALLY REALLY HURT HER!!
-did I hurt her?? I had no intention of hurting her!! I don’t know what to do now!!
2007-02-19 02:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after she said that i said
"I'm sorry i don't know what came over me when I yelled at you I'm a bad boyfriend."
she then text me back replying "that's all you can say huh?"
i said "i have to accept that you don't want me anymore. It's your decision"
she then reply back "No it's not that i don't want you it's that you do not want me and you've made it very clear."
-is it over?
did i really screw this one up??
edit: she called me and I asked her if she would like to talk after work...she said "i don't care" "You decide" i made her decide and she said "fine"....
-is this over for good?-
2007-02-19 02:10:25 · update #1
Edit some more: i saw her after work sat in her car and talked to her. She cried the ENTIRE TIME and told me how i hurt her. I told her the truth i don't REALIZE when I hurt her. It's true sometimes I DON'T!! I told her i didn't know what to do to make it up to her and that i realized tomorrow was supposed to be our "valentines day" but my guy friend was leaving tomorrow. I asked her to come Wednesday and I'd make it up to her. She shook her head said no started crying some more. I didn't know what to do so i said "i guess i should leave."
-is this over for good?-
she gave me one last chance....and i think i blew it....
is it possible i blew it??
2007-02-19 02:11:03 · update #2
THIS IS NEW PART READ IT
EDIT READ THIS PART: My guy friend has NO CAR!! His father is picking him up and we have NO IDEA what time he is coming and i can't just LEAVE HIM THERE!!! She's friends with him so i invited her over today. I said around 12:00. I have to work today at 4 (I am working a late shift)
-last night i promised her I'd write her a note expressing my feelings but i fell asleep!!! I didn't mean to I'm just VERY TIRED!!
I told her Wednesday i would make it up to her the WHOLE DAY we both have off and EVERYTHING!
but she got upset and said today was supposed to be "our day" and that we had this planned for 2 weeks.
what am i supposed to do??? leave my guy friend there!!
2007-02-19 02:12:53 · update #3
I was going to buy her flowers last night but I couldn't find the right one's and she was waiting for me so i didn't have much time. I can't show up at her house with flowers my guy friend is LEAVING TODAY i don't want to leave him there by himself. I told her she's welcome to come over and hang out today and then Wednesday I'd make it up to her. ISN'T THAT GOOD ENOUGH??
2007-02-19 02:13:48 · update #4
WOW... its really hit my heart. IF she thinks you hurt her, than you did. I guess you didn't know. She should had to tell you the truth than hold it down for long time and out of blue it hit her and woke her up. Then she realized that she was sufferin for long time then she had to get it out of her to you. You just didn't know. Yes you have to move on, its over but hey you learned your lesson for not ignore your future girl.. If you talk to your ex girlfriend again, please tell her to not hold it down, just speak it up because the couple supposed have trust, love and COMMUNICATE! Good luck.
2007-02-19 02:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last few days Y!A has been acting pretty weird and I haven't done any upgrades of Yahoo on this computer. I assume it is some sort of glitch in the system. It's frustrating, and I hate it, but we have had weirdness before and I assume at some point it will get fixed just like it always seems to. The underlined question mark is one symptom. If you click on it you usually link to a resolved question. Why? Beats me. And there have been times when I didn't get any e-mail notifications of contacts on the system. Like you, I almost always like additional details. Hang in there, Tori. This thing will get resolved one way or another.
2016-03-29 02:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.It is not over. she talked to you, means, she wants to give you a chance. tell her that you are very, very sorry. IF YOU LOVE HER, if you dont, let her cry and get over you,that would be the kind thing to do. so, if you love her, please accept your fault. TELL HER SHE MEANS MORE TO YOU THAN ALL YOUR GUY FRIENDS PUT TOGETHER. just say it, even if you dont mean it. first make up with her, pamper her, shower her with flowers and gifts. a girl in LOVE needs love alone, not expensive gifts. the way you treated her possibly made her insecure and unwanted. when things come back to normal, pls pls do two things. 1. Make the "rules" of your relationship clear to each other. shouting at her is definitely a no-no. TALK regularly. MEET at a regular basis. a girl like sthe guy to tell her that he wants to meet her. she wouldnt have liked suggesting it herself,on top of that, you couldnt find time for her. 2.pls find out why she is INSECURE. she is telling you of her insecurity at the top of her voice and you are not hearing her. pls DO NOT meet girl friends behind her back. GIRLS CANNOT share their guy with anyone. do NOT give other girls equal imporatnce as you give to her. for example, if you celebrate her b'day with her, buy her a cake, DO NOT BUY A CAKE to your other girlfriends. pls do patch up.this world is fall of hatred, spite, malice,wickedness, you have found love, cherish it.
2007-02-19 02:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-boyfriend did the same thing to me. He got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day. I cooked a big meal for him as my gift and after it he decided we should go to his friends house. My best friend got flowers from her husband, he had them delivered to his office. I told my ex about this and he told me that he had ordered flowers and he so shocked that they had never shown up. We broke up a month later. I'm so much happier with my fiancee, we met 3 months after my ex and I broke up and he went all out for me on Valentine's day.
A girl needs to feel appreciated, especially on Valentine's day. If you're just blowing her off for your friends it's no wonder that she wants to break up. A girl should feel like she's number one in your life and apparently that's not happening.
Shape up or ship out.
2007-02-19 02:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by melissatheelf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want a boy who loves them like crazy who they dont cry all the time about. Yes it is over and you obviously found your mistake. Sorry dude.
2007-02-19 02:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Volleyball Expert in da house!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hurt her, and she does sound serious. yes it is possible that you blew it. Even though your friend is leaving you can see him some other time, you have been with her two years and just going to let it go over chillin with your friend.
no isn't not good enough
2007-02-19 02:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by destjaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that psychotic lady and all the haters with negative answers.
You hurt her cause she is never first in your life, I think.
Well sounds like a young Lorenna Bobbit.
2007-02-19 02:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you like your friend more than her .what kind of relationship is that if all you do is make her cry she is going to get tired of the haedaches . give it up .
2007-02-19 02:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't like how you treat her. treat her better. she doesn't feel appreciated or loved. you yell at her and ignore her? ... of course she doesnt want to cry over you. you aint worth it if you hurting her enough to cry everyday.
2007-02-19 02:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you blew,Grow up
2007-02-19 02:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋