i love this girl alot. The problem is i can't bring myself to tell her. Am afraid she might say no which will kill what little i have with her. And am also afraid she might say yes then i wouldn't know how to treat her as she deserves. What do i do?
2007-02-19 01:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by nocirpac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like you have no gut or think TOO MUCH! Now, right NOW, you have to stop to think about what if what if what if what if... stop that! You have to ignore it and DO IT, give it a chance to see what she will say. If she said no, move on, im sure other girl is better than her. If she said yes, just keep it cool and give it time to get know her, from there you can treat her in right way. Good luck.
2007-02-19 01:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you really have to ask yourself is... is this just an infactuation or do you have a real connection with this girl. You can't love someone who has no interest in you, or does not realize you are anything other than a friend. Your choices are to call her out and let her know how you feel or play it close and wait. I would advise you to play it close to the vest, be her friend but let her see you with other women, if she likes you she will become jealous or react a certian way towards them. Also if you let her know how you feel you give her all the control, she has to realize that you are possible suiter, make her chase you. The key to your statement was that you have little involved with her right now as it is, you need her to see you as a guy wanted by other women, don't chase her. If she does not appear interested then you have your answer. Remember only fools rush in.
2007-02-19 09:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by wedge1_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her better as friends, because then you can flirt a little as friends so it's harmless, and get her attention at the same time - if you just say I Love You randomly, then she might be a bit taken aback and won't know what to do, and then the whole "Oh let's just be friends" thing will come up and you wont have enough courage to ask again for fear of rejection.
After a while when you've built up a good rapport, ask her if you'd like to meet up just the two of you as friends....and then take it from there, building up to a date. If you know her well, you'll know how to treat her as she deserves because you'll know all her likes and dislikes!! Good luck!
2007-02-19 09:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. I would get to know her inside and out ... (not physically! Ew!).
Be as sweet and thoughtful and listening and understanding as you can be. Be her best friend and then you could casually bring up dating ...
My advice - DON'T tell her you love her if she is just a friend or acquaintance. It can REALLY scare girl if you come on too strong.
Take your time. If you really love her, your feelings will last.
Hope all goes well!
PS- BE SURE YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT HER, not you. THINK ABOUT WHAT WOULD MAKE HER HAPPY. BE THERE FOR HER.
2007-02-19 09:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel. If she says no, then at least she got a chance to appreciate your friendship, knowing that since you care about her, you'll be there for her.
Don't hold that love inside.
But in any event, I would tell her that I like her personality, hair, etc... first. You don't want to scare her off. Okay?
2007-02-19 09:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. If you love her tell her. For who knows she's waiting for you to say it. And even if it doesn't work....at least you would have the heart to say I tried...I lost. And if she agrees...than with time it all works...so don't worry over that.
2007-02-19 09:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your Heart, talk to hers. If they wanna connect? Everybody's gonna be happy. Don't leave, either heart out of it. Or someone is gonna lose. Luck & Love to ya!
2007-02-19 09:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way, if u dont tell her then she might end up with someone else, and ul regret not telling her....go for it dude...
2007-02-19 09:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love her... TELL HER!
its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all!
you will never know... better getting a little hurt than wondering "what if" for the rest of your life!!
2007-02-19 09:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Saritah Bonita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well whatu can do is buy her something thatsay i love u and she what she say so u dont have to say but u bought it just try it
2007-02-19 09:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋