I came home from work last night and walked into our bedroom and he was asleep on our bed. When I first walked in the room it looked like he was wearing whitey tighties, even though I threw all of those away when we moved in together. I was going to sneak up on him and surprise him then I noticed that what he was wearing had writing on it, was really thick and then I saw the blue tapes hold them closed. I stood there in disbelief for what seemed forever and then I just screamed "WHAT THE #$% ARE YOU WEARING??" He jumped up and tried to cover himself but it was way too late for that. After a long discussion he told me that he liked to wear them sometimes and had been doing this since he was 10 years old! I told him I was too upset to even talk anymore and that we could discuss it in the morning. He said ok and tried to climb into bed with nothing but that diaper on. I yelled at him to take it off and sleep like a man. I'm really confused and dont know what to do....
2007-02-19 01:39:57 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We talked more about it this morning. He says he doesn't know what he likes to wear them, he said it just relaxes him. I hadn't fully digested him wearing them when he told me that he would really like it if I would wear one for him every once in awhile. I don;t know if this is something I should leave him over, or if it is something I should accept and maybe even participate in. I'm just so confused and know that I can't talk to my friends or family about this. What would you do?
2007-02-19 01:47:18 · update #1
I asked and he doesn't have a problem with wetting or messing his pants. He just likes to wear them.
He is at work now so i am sitting here looking at his box that he keeps his diapers in. I really love him and do not want to loose him. I am thinking that I will tell him to do what he wants when I am not around, but not to do this in front of me. I am also thinking about trying one of these things on just to see what it feels like. Who knows, I guess it may not be too bad. And, I know that he would love it. I wonder what he would do for me if he came home and found me wearing a diaper for him? :)
2007-02-19 02:05:32 · update #2
There's no doubt that there are some odd fetishes out there. This one is not very popular compared to some but as long as it doesn't cause any physical or psychological harm to anyone I think it's fine. If you want to try this with him I'm sure he would love you even more. If you don't want to participate in this just make sure he has time to indulge in it for himself.
2007-02-19 04:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by b T 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your a being a bit over the top aren't you? Some men do have a problem of leakage at night, he could have an incontinence problem of wetting the bed or worried about doing so. Some adults have to wear the darn things quit making a federal case out of it.
If you cant stand the idea find a new boyfriend.
2007-02-19 01:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Fecal incontinence is not a young person would be happy to have known to anyone especially a girl friend. It normally only happens in old age. It is where the rectum isn't quite tight enough to prevent a little fecal matter coming out. It can happen to young people.
Traumatic events in childhood can lead to unusual manifestations of unusual behaviour later on. There are other possible reasons.
The confusion is yours. If this is to you a good reason to split up that's OK.
That would, I believe, be very uncharitable.
2007-02-19 01:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by salubrious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should make him wear the girls goodnites diaper 24/7 . His fetish can be much worse than this . At least something like this gives you control and power over him
2016-06-02 05:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gina L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For one, why did you throw all his whitie tighties away? If he like wearing them let him wear them.
Then for 2, if he wears a diaper, if you love him it shouldn't matter. Just take it as it comes. Maybe its more comfortable for him? Maybe there are reasons behind it that you don't know about?
Why not try being more accepting of people rather than critizing them before you know the whole story?
2007-02-19 01:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 9⤊ 1⤋
if he wants to feel like a baby in his diaper at home I don't see the problem..Think you should have said to him that if he likes feeling like a baby then I'm going to make sure you do.Then removed his diaper and put him over your knee and spanked his bare bottom til he cried like a baby. Couldn't hurt you anymore then it hurt him....
2014-01-08 03:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by mjsc3 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
So what!?! Whats the big deal? Its not like he wets the bed or takes a dump in the diapers, does he?
Get over it!
Your poor boyfriend! You sound like an unbearable pain in the a$$.
2007-02-19 01:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseyngsoul 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
its not a big deal try with him if u like and talk to him more if its not youre thing than cool but dount make a big deal out of him whering around the house under his shorts or sweat pants etc it makes him feel good also ask him if he is ab or dl or bouth be open minded and rember you accept this he wount cheat or ever leave you
you accept this and he will do anything you ask good luck
2016-08-06 21:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by abgregg 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make him change it himself. You shouldn't have to. Make sure he uses powder - diaper rash can be a b&tch.
2007-02-19 01:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a wierd fetish. something to do with his childhood. If you really love the guy and want to be with him, i would go put on a diaper.
2007-02-19 02:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by john 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋