should i tell her ?

Question

hi,
recently i have discovered that my teacher in college is one of my early neighbours. she is just 3-4 yrs. older than me.
we have been neighbours for 18 yrs. i have spend my childhood in her colony. for the last 5 yrs. we have not seen each other.
when we were neighbours, we didn't had a very nice relationship. she was quite strict and used to scold us if by mistake our cricket ball goes into her garden.
now she is my teacher. she doesn't recognizes me due change in my appearance but i have recognized her.
now my problem is if tell her that whole story then she can develop a prejudice about me that i am still the same sort of mischievious guy.

Tell me what should i do? should i tell her or not?
Also , i like her. she is very beautiful . i like her from childhood. tell me some thing i should do and this should not upset her in any way.
please help me.
thank you

ashutosh

Answer 1

Actually , there is no right or wrong answer to your questions. To tell you the truth are you sure that she doesn't remember you? She might acts like she doesn't because she's your teacher now. In fact, this is the problem. Even if she recognised you , a relationship with your teacher is not a good idea. Especially if you hadn't been very good friends. If you really like her you can just mention something about your neighbourhood like a comment. Anything you do might upsets her , because she's your teacher. By the way I don't think she doesn't remember you at all , even if you have changed a lot. Well you should consider that you can't be together and have a normal relationship , as this will affect your studies and her job. You should avoid these situations and don't cause them. I'm sure that if you try you'll find someone else who will be just perfect for you.

Answer 2

Tell it to her.
Truth is never hidden it is out some or the other day.
So It would b better if u tell it to her now only,if she gets angry then apologize and show her that u r very very sorry for the past things and then create a good relationship with her.
Or else some day when she'll get to know the truth then its goin 2 b hard time for u.
If she is a good women then when she comes to know about this she'll say that u did not even tell me that u were my neighbour and then she'll forget it.
So better go and tell her and b good to her she'll forget everythin and forgive.
But b sure not to ask for marriage netime in the future bcoz its against the law.ha ha.
Good luck

Answer 3

Since u have told that she had a bad impression on u..First impress her in some way r the other.. get a good name.. Talk with her about general things.. After getting a good relationship u can declare the truth on a fine day

Answer 4

I would not mention it in class. I doubt she would think you are the same child though. She is a professional teacher who spends her life shaping children and watching them grow. Talk to her about it after you finish the class. You will not have to worry about her being prejudiced and she may well prove to be a worthwhile friend.

Answer 5

Nope not now.......
I think u Should wait for her to Gain faith In u.....
its good that She does not recognise u Now.
this way u'll be able to Gain confidence in her.
Score Good marks in Her Subject and Bingo..........U'll Catch her attention.
later when She will come to know tht u r a good intelligent guy,tell her tht u used to be the same naughty boy in her neibourhood.
this should not tka more than two weeks.
Proving ur intelligence does not require Exam results, u can do it while in the lecture itself.
ans her questions,ask doubts(Intelligent doubts offcourse).......

Answer 6

you are a very poor guy

Answer 7

go ahead to propose her,
go for it dear.