Isn't this really offensive to say to a guy that just asked you out? Doesn't rudness like this often kill possible relationships? To me, it would be the same as me telling a girl that I'll go out with her, but not to expect me to buy her anything. What is the cause of this bizarre paranoia?
2007-02-19 01:17:20 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES! I think the same thing. Just because u r a guy doesn't mean that u want sex. Just because they are girls doesn't mean that they want u to buy things. It's just stupid stereotypes. People need to get over that crap.
2007-02-19 01:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing bizarre or paranoid here.
Women and men are different. All people are different of course and one shouldn't generalise. I'm sixty and love the company of women.
When women, and again I'm generalising, like, perhaps need, to set parameters on an even short term relationship. There is an interplay of emotions at work here.
At one level a lady is vulnerable to a man's charm and her own passion if she becomes convinced that the guy she is with "loves" her. At another level she doesn't want to be abused or taken for granted.
Come on can you compare not buying dinner with sex ?
Who is bizarre?
2007-02-19 01:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by salubrious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think that she should tell this to the guy the minute her asks her out but once they go out if that is what she feels he is after. Why waste her time with someone who only wants what she doesn't want. I do agree that it could come off kinda rude if they guy that asks her out actually likes her and is not just looking for sex.
2007-02-19 01:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubtful. It weeds out those who are looking for just sex and one night stands. (Which are probably the majority). What kind of a relationship can you expect from them anyway? You should be happy that she doesn't want to waste your time or hers.
2007-02-19 01:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you out of your mind?not everything is about sex.if you like a girl and want to be with her then you will respect her.no it is not offensive.want sex on a first date is likely to kill a relationship mate.
i(tony)dont see how not have sex and not buying someone a gift is based in the same tree,you buy gifts because its nice,because you want to.people only have sex if they want to.you cant force a person to have sex with you can you?thats called rape yeah?
gifts and sex,both totally different things.
2007-02-19 01:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by tony21_and_steve17 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like to have a relationship not a one night stand. Also, we do not like being used just for a guys pleasure.
2007-02-19 01:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by GurlOnTheRoad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because if we women come out and say that we do want to have sex on the first date or a one night stand then we are classified as easy, or hookers.
2007-02-19 01:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by aims 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because most women these days want an on going committed relationship, not some one nite fling, then again there is the % that do want the one nite fling, no strings attached.
2007-02-19 01:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never say this to a guy. Actually if a guy doesn't expect sex it's a turn on to me and then I REALLY ROCK HIS WORLD!!!!! ;)
2007-02-19 01:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Melrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋