we spent 2 weeks together lately and we were both upset and having to many difficulties.but also very happy and in love many times.we r from different countries.teurkey&holland
2007-02-19 01:09:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the saying 'if you love something, set it free...if it comes back to you it's yours, if not, it never was' is sometimes proven to be correct.
If she's your 'soulmate' it will all work out in the end. My husband and I went through this and almost 3 years after our initial meeting, we met again and well...here we are many moons later, 5 children, and only 1 disagreement to speak of (when we were building our home a few years after we married).
Pushing her into something when she's not ready will only drive her away if she isn't quite ready for a committed relationship.
Take her que and you may find yourself surprised and if you don't get where you want to be as a couple, perhaps that is because she really isn't the one for you and the person who is will show up at some point...then you'll be glad things went the way they did.
2007-02-19 01:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and sit together in a place where there are quiet music, flowers, water and peace. Take some nice books, food you like and don't take anything electronic. Leave the world behind. It would be nice if you could go to a garden of some type, or some place just meant for nature.
2007-02-19 01:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by QueryJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's your soulmate then u will be together. If not then let her go. It gets to a point where it's a waste of time to try to keep a girl (or guy) when things just aren't working. Just do what feels right and if it does not look like it is going to work then screw it.
2007-02-19 01:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean it sounds like she sees it the way you are putting it, how it would be so hard, you both are very far away from each other, you have only spent 2 weeks together.. etc. I mean you gotta at least tell her how you feel because she may have no idea. Or ask her how she feels about leaving u.
2007-02-19 01:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by meg r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spent the time well together . You can visit each other on vacation . If you are above 18 you can marry her.
2007-02-19 01:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ARE her soul mate you wouldn't have to do one single thing to prove it. A soul mate would just be their self and not worry for one second what their soul mate is thinking or feeling about them because they would just know and look forward to being together.
IF you feel you must prove it then you evidently are not soul mates
IF you have to ask you evidently are not soul mates
2007-02-19 01:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by sapphire_630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter how far u and her the matter is love. love is care, understand, and encourage... respect... allot of meaning..
u must to see her face to face to believe that she is your soul mate.. and she must believe the same....
it's normal to have difficulties but the love is more... good luck...
love her and show her how much u are good to her,.. that re grate not see u before...
2007-02-19 01:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be completely honest and tell her how this is going way to fast, need to slow it a bit.... not comfortable being upset with you ...bla bla
2007-02-19 01:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lock her in the cupboard under the stairs and throw her scraps of food.......... You can keep her forever.
2007-02-19 01:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think theirs such a thing as a 'soulmate'. so just treat her like any other gf
2007-02-19 01:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋