go out with him. How can I turn him down for good. He knows I don't like him I think! He told me " I was the must beautiful girl he has seen" (lair) I'm not saying I'm ugly but he's a guy. Anyway he some how thinks he has a chance because he keeps stalking me, and even said he hopes to see my puppy one day!. he was even talking about kids, and how he loves them!. He says I'm unique and that I'm even more beautiful than before... He's stressing me out. I wish I would never had to see him, I don't like how he makes me feel in front of him. Help!
2007-02-19 01:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by kitty99026 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a pervert!
2007-02-19 04:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't like him then u should just tell him up front. There's nothing worse than wasting time with a girl or guy because u think there is an off chance that u will be together.
It sounds like he really likes u and he's trying to do things that will make u happy. I don't get what more he could do to please u. He's wasting his time if being nice to u isn't attractive and u should just tell him the next time that he comes up to u.
2007-02-19 01:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you running into this guy? If its at school talk to a counselor. If its at work, talk to your boss. If it's your boss, talk to his boss, better yet, put it in writing. Sexual harassment in the workplace is against the law. If it continues, file a law suit.
Stalking is against the law. Tell him to leave you alone. If he persists, call the police, make a report and swear out a restraining order against him.
If you don't think its that serious, just tell him bluntly to leave you alone, you are not interested, and to stop asking you out.
2007-02-19 01:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore
2007-02-19 01:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by arsenalsalam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since not knowing your age, do you have a big brother? Have you brother to tell him that there's no chance OR just tell him that his persistence is not needed or wanted. Tell him very bluntly that you are not interested in him and that he needs to stop immediately. If that doesn't work, have another guy friend to tell him that he has worn out his welcome.
2007-02-19 01:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop taking the invitations and make it clear you are not in to him. If that's not getting any where then have some male friend or uncle or brother relay the news. sound like stalker to me. better to be safe then sorry.
2007-02-19 01:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to stop bothering you and mean it!! and just say no to all the times he ask's you . ive met boys like that b4 they just want you becuz your like the prettiest girl in school or popular or what ever so they can just look good but just tell him to step off and back off
2007-02-19 01:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to this guy, no means yes.
cut all lines of communication.
in legal terms, stalking is an offense that falls under "unjust fixation."
2007-02-19 01:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, I don't like you and will never go out with you!
2007-02-19 01:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him NICELY to stop stalking you. just be like "um, i dont like you like that, but one day you will find a girl who will love you!" just dont be mean!
2007-02-19 01:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by iluvromey! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell up front that you are not interested and he continues your going to have to report him.
2007-02-19 01:09:18 · answer #11 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋