I broke up with my boyfriend about three months ago, and he called me about a week and a half ago, crying over the phone and asking me to forgive him for what he did. In which, was my fault totally. But he still claims that it was his fault that we broke up. But in that three months time, I have gotten to know these two other guys at my college, and I like both of them a lot. The one has a girlfrfiend already, but I believe he's starting to like me and that's not a good sign. And then the other guy I like a lot and I know that he likes me. Now I am in this predicament on what to do. Should I go back to my ex-boyfriend, should I continue to like the guy who has a girlfriend, or should I just keep continuing on liking the guy that likes me? I need some words of wisdom on what to do in this situation. If any suggestions, please respond. But if it's for kicks, please I beg of you do not try to answer this question. Thanks for your cooperation and for your help.
2007-02-19 00:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by princesstocrown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there had to be a reason you broke up....so is anything different that would make things better for the relationship and make you not want to break up again?
forget the one who already has a gf...that is wrong of you
maybe the guy who is free and you kinda like...you are in college...you don't have to make any major lifelong relationship decisions at this point in your life ya know
be cool...
2007-02-19 01:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was your fault and he's willing to take the blame then what are you waiting for! Guys like that are hard to find so i suggest you hang on to him but that doesn't mean you should let him take the blame for something you did wrong. Explain to him that it was your fault and that you're sorry. He seems like he really wants to be with you so i think you should forget the other two guys and go back to your ex.
2007-02-19 01:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Raisin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is stable which you have been in a position to forgive, yet no person might desire to ever forget approximately. To forget approximately is to by no potential learn from the experience. in case you destroy up with him, you will no longer remorseful approximately it, except you enable your self to. i will say from experience that have confidence is a few thing which you would be able to by no potential totally regain from the guy who has betrayed you. you will possibly start up looking your self questioning who he's conversing to on the telephone or who he's rec'd e-mails from. it could grow to be maddening in case you enable it, yet it relatively is what it comes all the way down to. He betrayed your have confidence and you will discover that your love for him has dwindled. this is not a happy, healthful relationship and you deserve extra desirable. bypass back and seem at what you wrote. this is annoying so which you would be able to tell him you adore him, you hate what he did, you won't be in a position to bypass on pretending. The harm is deep, the anger remains burning. Why shop pretending or pretend in any respect? Why won't be in a position to you adore your self adequate to declare that it relatively is adequate and it's time to stand up and say so long? you will possibly desire to sense no guilt in any comprehend simply by fact it wasn't you who destroyed the relationship, it replaced into your boyfriend. There are different superb adult men accessible, adult men who've a extra desirable theory of the thank you to handle, love and comprehend the lady in his life. Please do no longer think of he's the only one. Love your self, be your very own maximum suitable buddy and do your self a choose and tell him to make diverse preparations as to the place he would be staying. think of two futures: one, being married to him and being depressing or 2, being married to a dependable guy and happy. the alternative is yours to make and that i wish you're making the wonderful one. I totally understand the soreness you sense and that i actually might particularly you be happy. Love your self, be your very own maximum suitable buddy, and have self belief in love even once you do no longer sense it staggering now.
2016-10-02 09:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with kevin ++ and find a serious one...
At the same time remember no guys like a woman who does acts like u...this is cheating to be with three guys...
2007-02-19 01:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Love ur Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me the ex is gone. don't be with a guy who already has a girlfriend. therefore, the guy who likes you and you like too!! perfect.
2007-02-19 01:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by beyingnobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never accept...he just want to waste your LIFE...listen I didn't say your Time.... find a better one ASAP as you want to get a serious relationship ASAP
2007-02-19 01:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... i would totaly step back and think about it... deep down u know what u want... as for what is right u are gonna have to decide that no one can do it for u
2007-02-19 01:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋