Hey, i'm soooo worried that my girl dosn't like me as much anymore, and was wondering if i could get any advice from some fellow ladies out there. Heres the symptoms: She doesn't seem to want to carry on a conversation on the phone that long anymore, but i make her laugh and smile every time i talk to her, she seams to text a lot with my best friend, shes turned him down a couple times in the past so i'm not so worried about that, and thats about it, and here are some of the ways in which i think she is still interested in me: she touches/hits me a lot, not in a bad way just when i make her laugh or something shell hit me, she is always leaning close to me, or sitting next to me, and i have tried not to give her a hug and a kiss when i was dropping her off just to see if she would give any signs to wanting one and she put her arm out and leaned in for a kiss. So i don't know if i'm just overexagerating things because i really like her so much or what, i appreciate any advice.
2007-02-19 00:53:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her ...
Ask her... be open and honest with your self and her... let her know where you stand ..and how you feel .... and if this feelin is indeed mutual. dont be so quick to assume that she might be settin somethin up with your friend.... and if this was the case... then thats not much of a friend anyway,,,,,,
but have you thought to think for a moment... maybe infact she does like you .......but doesnt know exactly how to react .. or rather tell you point blank.... or maybe she wants to take it slow....and is afraid that she might lose you if she tells you this....
but the best thing to do is talk to her.. and your friend... just ask him ... hey bro.... you know that i really like so &so ... but im not sure if this is 2 ways... does she talk to you about me...
You will never know unless you talk to her though.....
And after everythin is all said and done... and she infact is not as interested in you as you thought..... then at least you know where you stand... but you owe to the both of you to lay out the feelins .....
Good luck
2007-02-19 01:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by -xtc- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well so far, you only listed one symptom...her not wanting to carry on a long phone conversation. It could be something as simple as...you guys don't have much to talk about over the phone because you spend a lot of time together.
2007-02-19 08:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of time and patience and listening to your gut will answer your question. I'd be upset with the friend though for asking her out. That's no kind of friend. Unless you set him up to it, in which case, that's no way to treat your girlfriend. Just wait it out and see. Listen to your gut feeling.
2007-02-19 09:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have any problems together? if not, then i guess ur over reacting if not paranoidly thinking that she's drifting away....if that is so, well you make a move or effort to bring the closeness back////
2007-02-19 09:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by lostinhislostlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me you're just being over-worried..
2007-02-19 09:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by beyingnobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋