I'm a medical student and I don't have time for this crap, I need to get back to my studies. But I can't. Its like my heart is ripping to pieces and I'm basically bedridden. Please help me get out of this rut, I try to study but all I do is think about her.
2007-02-19 00:36:42 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just set up your mind who is more important for you, she or your studies? definitely i'm sure , In your life lots of girls will come but this time never will back again in your life. choice is your you have to choose and man you are a doctor dont be so emotional just give your exams and talk her later on after your exams.
2007-02-19 00:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by singleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try to put the pieces of your life back together. I know that it's hard to do but you can and have to do it. The longer you stay in bed and think only of your broken heart the worse you will feel. I know that you feel like life isn't worth living anymore. So get yourself out of bed, dress and get your mind on something else. Your studies is one way. Call a friend and go have coffee or lunch. Don't let this paralyze you into flunking out of school. It's not easy to mend a broken heart but it is possible. Besides just maybe if she sees that you're getting on with your life it will make her think that she made a mistake. If love is truly there things will work out for you. The worse thing you can do is let her see you so down.
2007-02-19 01:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pick the pieces up glue them back together and move on. As long as u keep thinking about her and letting it bother u the more pain u are going to feel. Forget her I know its easier said then done but i was in the same situation u are in and it took me along time to realize that all i was doing was hurting myself more for thinking about it. So let it go u 2 just weren't meant to be. Move on and focus on ur study and one day when u least expect it ur soulmate will come. Keep ur head up high and keep telling urself that u are better off w/o her. It will take some time but eventually your heart want hurt anymore. Good luck.
2007-02-19 00:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do something that you truly like to do that you guys wouldn't do together. Something that requires exercise or your full attention. You're not studying anyway. Hang out with old friends or make some new ones that had nothing to do with her. Having your heart brokens is hard and it feels like it will never be ok again and it will turn you into a crazy person if you sit around nd dwell. go outside and play in the snow or take a walk. Breathe in and breathe out. Throw yourself into something. do crosswords or play solataire (with real cards).
2007-02-19 00:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by crichmond1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and find someone new, it will take time if you were in love with her as much as you say, but you need someone else to get you over her, or even go out with friends and meet new people you might find that this helps. Good Luck.
2007-02-19 00:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...
Just at least balance love and study.
Get up. Wake up.
Think of sadistic things...
But hide it unknowingly, ok?
Try to make her fall in love...
or worse...
ruin her life...
Fall for that kind of stupidity...
It's a nice life...
and what did she do?
She just interfered, right?
It's your choice.
Maktub. Only everything is written.
2007-02-19 00:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nicko C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friends take you out and meet new girls...get their number and start talking to them. But I know that friends and laughter will help the pain...
2007-02-19 00:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by XOXOXO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time.. you need it... it takes time to forget a person.. trust me.. it'll slowly fade away... whenever she comes to your mind, just tell yourself to stop!!! Force yourself to stay focused on your studies... if you really concentrate, then you can't think of anything else
2007-02-19 00:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by beyingnobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to move on find someone good that you know won`t break your heart.
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