right now i don't have a bf but when i do it is hard to come up with a conversation. when ever we r on the phone we just don't have anything to say. of coarse we started by asking each other how our days went, and what we did that day but after that i don't know what to talk about.
2007-02-19 00:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by jasmine b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't really have much to talk about, you shouldn't really be together...right!?
Talk about stuff you have in common, stuff both of you like. Movies you've recently seen, & movies you'd like to see.
Same with TV shows & books as well...
2007-02-27 00:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by justanotherbloke 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with your boyfriend? If this is a new relationship, and you are finding nothing to talk about, maybe you should reconsider your choice. However, you both just could be nervous and the pressure to be "interesting" is causing you both to be shy.
Get involved with each other's hobbies. Discuss current events, hopes and wishes for the future, your dreams, favorite food, music, television shows, anything.
2007-02-19 00:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about your personal things, but not too personal.. If you catch my drift. He's a more intimate friend and its better if you two become more close by sharing things, and spending more time. Esp. if you awkward being around him then he's not right for you. I don't mean shy but like you don't know what to say (literally). If the guy is right then you will be comfortable with him from day one.
hope i helped.
-crissy
2007-02-19 00:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by lil_kor3an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess a boyfriend will usually progress from a really really good friendship already. (of course exceptions are there....)
but if it has already progressed from a good relationship, technically there is already communication made.
if there are silences, or there is nothing to talk about.. do start asking if there is a communication breakdown.
but, i guess, when it comes to such a dating relationship, a silence is actually quite beautiful, because it isnt so much as having nothing to talk, but there is no need to... both have become so comfortable with silence that it is actually a form of communication...
it takes a certain level to achieve that i suppose ;P
but of course, there must still be normal 'talking' communication together with that romantic silence :D
2007-02-19 00:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by nicrome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about making plans. My gf and I don't talk much on the phone, because we have such great conversations on our dates, so our phone calls tend to be short and mainly deal with where we should go next. But we also see each other at work...
2007-02-26 16:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Zeppboy67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should come naturally.. if you're having problems with this then maybe its not ment to be. if you use to talk alot to each other and want to make it work out then maybe a counselor would be cool. also, maybe you just need a new spark in your relationship. tease him, take him on a date, make out with him, sex? go out and have a good time. conversation will happen :).
2007-02-26 19:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by vitadio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk about thing that I like to do.What I want to do with my life, things that we could do together. Stories about when you were kids, funny times in your life.
What kind of pet you might want to have one day, music you like,what you like to do when its hot or cold out.Books you have read ect. ect. ect.
Conversation can be tough but I am sure there are a million things you can say!
2007-02-19 00:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by sivaspyder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means ...I am sure both of you are not serious even by 30%...and you/he are still searching for someone better than him...that's why you are not getting any subject to talk....or if my calculations are totally wrong then talk to him seriously as something is missing...
2007-02-26 23:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about movies or songs you like. And maybe if you guys like the same movies you can rent them and cozy up on the couch and watch them together.
2007-02-26 23:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find mr right you will just talk
it will come naturally
wait til you are with the same person for many many yrs
it is hard to spend your life with someone and not talk
i have been with my love for yrs and yrs and we still find things to talk about
2007-02-19 00:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋