It seems like every time that I find a girl that I like we hang out for a good amount of time, basically we have alot of fun. These girls are always so good to be around and I always think that they're some of the most beautiful girls that I've met. After we've hung out for a while I'll ask them to do something (just to see if they will take the "relationship" a step further) and she'll then reveal to me that she already has a bf. I'm sure that they are telling the truth because I've actually met most of their bfs after the fact. It always hurts sooooo damn much to get that response. It's like feeling used because she has gotten close with u and done all these things with u (not sex) all the time knowing that she had a bf and that she wasn't going to going anywhere with u. One time I actually almost came to tears after getting off the phone with a girl that did this to me. It makes u want to say forget emotions and go back to being with girls just for sex. Why do they do this?
2007-02-19 00:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has happened to me 3 times in the last year or so. How can u find another girl when u've already chosen this one. It's like trying to find a 2nd best person u know what I mean. This emotional stuff sucks.
2007-02-19 00:37:22 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with being friends, maybe next time you should ask up front in general conversation if they have a boyfriend that way you know from the jump what to expect from them, and if they are doing things with you i understand not sex but kissing or anything else you don't want those types of girlfriends anyway because most likely they will do the same to you. Good Luck
2007-02-19 00:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your being too preoccupied, or maybe you've been meeting the same girl with the same personality that is why it happens to you often,, you should think differently and It's important to get a read on all the cues coming your way. So pay attention to the words, but pay just as much attention to the body language, tone of voice, and most of all, your own heart. especially when you see social injustice or another kind of unfair treatment being meted out. You've got what it takes to rectify this situation, so get to it. Release yourself from self-imposed restrictions or rules today. Do what feels right.
2007-02-19 00:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lheny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never be in a hurry in establishing intimate relationship. You are always hurt because you are surrounded by society girls. Search someone true for whom you & you are the only one on this earth. Intimate relationship requires sincerity & truthfulness which is rare in this western world.
2007-02-19 00:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls as a whole do not do that. you are being around the wrong people if they are users and do that to you.
try asking them up front if they are in a relationship and then you don't waste time or get used or hurt
be cool...
2007-02-19 00:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask them if they have a boyfriend before you get involved? Maybe they just think you want to be friends.
2007-02-19 00:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time tell them: "gas, grass, or assz. Nothing is free"
2007-02-19 00:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋