Im going to leave him......trouble is I have a class with him and I take him home after school everyday so basically I feel like its an obligation to! I will probably end up calling him again and then we will end up back together! (if you didnt read my other questions he cheating and he dont know i know) but i made my decision i just dont need some tips on how not to get back involved with him.....like me callin him or him calllin me or us talkin in school.....it always leads back to us being together.......what do I do? (Its been 2 yrs almost, and I love him and he says he loves me thats why its hard)
2007-02-19 00:25:59 · 9 answers · asked by CrazyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the last answer from Matt T. he has only cheated with one woman but I think its been on and off throughout our relationship....but he denys it...so basically it my thoughts verses what he says and its pretty much been proven that he's been with her now!
2007-02-19 00:48:29 · update #1
Well are you sure you want to leave him? Sounds like you still have strong feelings for him. What did he do to make you feel this way? Is he cheating on you?
He might not be your Romeo, but he is your man you care about. Life isn't perfect, we don't always get a perfect match.
It sounds like you really care about him, you can't always rely on a friends advice, why don't rely on what your heart is telling you. Do you love him?
You love him and he loves you, what is so wrong with that? You are not perfect, and he has his problems too, like any couple. When your love and feelings for him dies thats when you should go.
Unless he has cheated on you with 5 different women, I would say keep him.
2007-02-19 00:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind urself of what heart ache he caused u and that u don't need someone like that bringing u down. u may love him but thats no reason to stay with someone who cheats. as long as u keep taking him back the more he is going to cheat b/c he knows that he can do it and get away with it. U have to pick ur chin up and move on. Change ur # don't let him ride with u. Don't talk to him and eventually u will get over him. it takes time. if u get the nerve to call him then hide ur phone or block his # that way u can't call him and he can't call u. Its hard to do when u love someone but in the end it will be worth it. Good luck
2007-02-19 08:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need the will to say enough is enough . Keep telling yourself I know he looks good and I love him BUT he broke my heart way to many times and I will not let the player win . If you take him back you are letting him win and you gained nothing but more heart break in the future . GOOD LUCK make the right choice and leave the player alone .
2007-02-19 08:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way to get over of something is just constantly thinking the negative things about them. dont fall on thesame charisma like before, just keep on injecting on your mind that he's a cheater.
and also, try finding someone to accompany you whenever you are with him atleast your concentration will not be focused only on him. at thesme time, he'll be hesitant in getting closer if there is someone with you. Just try it.
2007-02-19 08:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by machooletz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK confront him on the cheating. THEn if he wont tell you dont take him home no more . GET A LIFE. he has go on with his so should u.
2007-02-19 08:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating then it's clear that he doesn't love you so just stay away from him except when you have to see him at school.
2007-02-19 08:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away - It's the only way
Going back to your ex is like giving cig's to someone who quit.
Going back to your addiction is not the way to give it up?
You'll always lose, unless you stay away.
2007-02-19 09:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him, and don't drive him home anymore if you think it'll make you fall for him again.
2007-02-19 08:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by sally gally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nut case.
2007-02-19 08:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋