me and my girl friend have been dating for a long time and she is finaly ready .....and now i am not sure how to go about it.....she has set up a date....next weekend we are supposed to do it but i am still not sure........plz help me
2007-02-19 00:00:13 · 13 answers · asked by the doctor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. come to my place i will show u how to do.
2007-02-19 00:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
buy condoms. a bunch. Use several in trails how to put them on fast and right.
One does not normally plan out the technique of engaging in intercourse. When it happens it does so instinctually, and naturally. Let her lead, and spend as much time in foreplay as you/she can stand. Don't be overly urgent to mount, and don't; feel as though you have to be an extortionist and do the total Kama Sutra thing. GO SLOW.
Oh, and make sure she is of legal age to consent, otherwise it is statutory rape, and can get you sent up for time.
2007-02-19 08:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself! She is FINALLY READY? Have you been pressuring her? Why not RESPECT her and leave her alone to find someone who has a sense of respect and class. This is a girl, not a piece of meat. Would you marry this girl? If not, why are you pressuring her to have sex? If you WOULD marry this girl, why not ask her?
9 times out of 10, girls who have sex feel guilty about it afterward. Do you really want that? Or is the sex that important? My guess is that you have been pressuring her, and for that, you should be removed from her life.
2007-02-19 08:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure or not ready please don't be pressured into it. Try to relax and enjoy your time together and things might progress that way naturally. No point in getting all stressed about it - it will happen when it's right for both of you, not just one of you. You should have your first time WHEN YOU ARE READY.
2007-02-19 08:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax ,approch the situation like you've been having sex with her for 10 yrs .while u r making out with her take it slowly, take her hand and put it under your shirt or in ur pants which ever ur comfortable with.
and do with comes natural from there .
good luck .
2007-02-19 08:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by RICKY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't set up an appointment for that it just comes naturally,don't be so stressed over it,that means your not ready
2007-02-19 08:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready then i would wait and try and talk to her about it. if she really cares for you (if not then i suggest you dont have sex with her) then she will listen and then you can decide togther what is the best thing for your relationship.
2007-02-19 08:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some blue films to help u for the first time, start with a dinner or sumting followed by drinks... take it easy n slowly.....
2007-02-19 08:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know her.
Just let her know you have never done it. She is very good at it and will show you every thing you need to know.
You'll love it
2007-02-19 08:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Golly Geewiz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things flow naturally, don't stress if it happens then it does, dont expect more than you think you can get
2007-02-19 08:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Island Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If so young do not do it, first evcaluate her sencerity in maintaining intimate relatonship otherwise you will be ruined.
2007-02-19 08:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋