well my friends keep tellin me not to be so negative and to just SMILE ! :)
but with all my problems its hard to be happy(if you glance through some of my questions you will find out what theese problems are)
My parents are sendin me to a counselor but i dont think it will help me be less negative what should i do tto cheer myself up?
xxx
2007-02-18 23:17:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Tough one...but it does have to be your choice. It will not be easy, but you can do it. Your attitude belongs to you, and only you can change it. Do not expect miracles overnight, but slowly start to look at things in a different light. Do more things you feel good about, and carry that with you. Keep your mind open about the counselor...if you do not think it will help, it will not.
2007-02-18 23:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great that your parents are aware that you need to see a counselor. So many parents these days don't even notice when their kids need help. Having parents like yours is one thing you can smile about.
A good counselor can help you with techniques & exercises to not be so negative.
As far as what to do to cheer yourself up, surely there used to be things that made you happy. Friends, music, a hobby....? You could do something you used to enjoy & see if it brings a smile to your face.
2007-02-19 07:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm glad to hear that you are going to see a counselor.I think you will be less negative if you are going to be open with you're counselor that is what they are there for.To cheer you're self up do something you like to do,(but wont heart you.) Talk to you're best friend have fun.Get out of the house for a bit..xo
2007-02-19 07:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
View your new counselor as a tool that you can use to solve your problem. Ask questions, and be direct. If you want to feel better, start changing today by seeking help. Take it from a counselor.
2007-02-26 12:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by albert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is hope. The counselor can help if you let them but the real answers are in you. Please read don't Sweat the small stuff, it may help the way you look at things and make life easier to handle. Don't give up you can find happiness in yourself.
2007-02-24 21:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Doobee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP carrying the weight of the world. Nothing matters, it's all little stuff that goes on only in your head. Even the big stuff is little stuff. Relax, enjoy, your wasting your time.
2007-02-26 22:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by LindaAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all been there and someday you'll realize lifes too short to be sad ..even through the hard times..we all been there ..most of us ..and be who u are now..because you'll find yourself later...only time can tell...
2007-02-19 07:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by jaysonmgs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, look, you are a wonderful person and are going through things that you shouldn't... you should really talk to a social worker. no kid needs to experience what you already have, no one should, and your screen name RAZORS are friedly, that kinda scares me too... please e-mail me if you need a helping hand or just need someone to talk to...
amber_shae_424@yahoo.com.
amd don't be afraid to talk to the counselor, maybe they can help!!! good luck babe!!!
2007-02-26 18:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by DSGG424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a shrink will want to drug you or think for you when you are powerful enough to solve your own problems. go to www.dianetics.org and take a look for yourself.
2007-02-24 15:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by robthomasjr2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters - change your "razors are friendly" name..
Just hang out with your friends .. shop... run... excersize releases endorphins - whch makes you happier..
2007-02-19 07:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋