well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot.this has been happening since december. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me? i know i have to talk to her but i'm a little nervous. i wouldn't really know what to say.
2007-02-18 22:36:08 · 7 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she does like you.....maybe she was embarresed of saying she liked you...but she still wants you to like her.
If she doesnt change her mind..dont bother with her..and find a girl who wont be embarresed to be going out with you.
2007-02-18 22:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you might have startled her when you first asked her out. Some girls panic at the idea of a 'date' - there's a whole lot of social pressure that goes along with quote-unquote 'dates'. Whatever you do, don't fret about it. Relax. You said that you and her haven't talked recently, but also said that she's trying to get your attention alot (i.e. flirting with you). Re-break the ice and flirt back in a way that suggests your interest but also suggests you're just kidding around. For example, next time you see her looking at you wink or blow her a kiss. Hopefully this makes her break a smile or laugh. Approach her after class and start building a dialogue with her again by joking around about how -she- seems to be interested in -you-. keep talking. Make sure -you- end the conversation and try and leave it on a humourous note. Once you've re-established a steady dialogue with her, set up a chance for you two to meet but don't label it a date - you don't want to go down the same path you already did. Maybe suggest she meets you at the library to study for a test or something else non-threatening. Once you and her off school grounds by yourselves, then you can try slowing getting more sincere about your interest in her and she'll feel more secure about receiving it.
2007-02-19 07:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by lucky guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...why are her friends answering for her? It sounds like she is under their influence. Yes, I think she does like you. It certainly wouldn't take me an entire week to say no otherwise. Her friends may have talked her out of saying yes for who knows what reasons.
My advice would be to get her ALONE for a few minutes, after class or something. You could try this: "I've been noticing you looking at me during class. Are you having any second thoughts about us dating?"
There are three possible outcomes. One, she says yes. Two, she secretly wants to go out with you but still says no because of peer pressure from her friends. Three, she says no and means no.
If you get a no: You will have to judge for yourself why, and move on. Let her know that you still want to be friends, but don't pay any more attention to her than you do to any other friend. Don't let yourself get played because you have feelings for her. You deserve someone who is honest!
2007-02-19 07:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by lovetoplayfantasyfootball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same story happened to me my friend, but i knew she loved me because why not after all those time we had together?? she's just too embarresed or wondering how to change friendship in love but she loves you for sure.
But only way to make her say the truth is just go to her straight and kiss her!!! no it's not a lie it happens and happened to me as well you dont have to say those magic word or wonderfull word to make her love you, you can tell she already likes you,
girls most of the time wants boys to make a first move if i am wrong girls out there say something. If she loves you she will keep kissing you if not then she will stop and say something to you and walk away,
if she choosed the second option then she's not worth for you mate, dont miss other beauties out there who loves you for just one!! i know it souds crazy but mate there's no other ways you can make her say the truth coz u never know what going inside girls are brain!!
or the second option is just never talk to her and this works too!!! see how she comes crawling to you just try to reject her pretend that your not interested in her!! at last when she is proper upset then it time for you to make move again!! mate remember this is not a joke this is truth!!
i have to say i am not a player but loved more than 20 girls and achived 95% of them!! dont worry aobut your look only girls who loves enjoying or thinks she is the preetiest looks for the look. just show them your love after all every girls need a loving guy!!!
2007-02-19 07:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by slash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are right. I think that she said no to try to hide the fact that she likes you. She's sad now because she thinks that she scared you away and that you don't like her anymore. I would suggest "curing this problem" by talking to her and being kind to her.
2007-02-19 06:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for situations to be with her for long periods of time. Maybe if she is going to the library, go with her. Choose someplace neutral and then see how things work out.
You don't want to scare her by being too aggressive.
2007-02-19 06:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Fernandes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Well she's an attention seeker. I know one of those. She may have said no because she likes you but its likely that she just wanted attention and she's too embarased to talk to you anymore because of what she did to you.
Hope you find someone else :)
2007-02-19 08:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋